I am really struggling with everything atm
I just had a baby 11 months ago and pregnant again 4 months. I am finding it difficult to leave the house, clean dishes and keep up with my daughter and husband is busy in his own world making that money for us. I feel like I'm not even in control of my own life no more feel sooooo regretful I'm pregnant again I keep shouting at my daughter to keep quiet I am resenting my husband I feel very suicidal I know it's haraam haraam but I feel stuck I'm very very very stressed any wise words to get me out of this feel like I'm about to lose my mind
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Have you spoken to your husband how your are feeling? What do you feel will help not feel this way and speak to him. Maybe if he helps more with the house chores it'll help you
Being pregnant is not easy at all especially having a toddler around. Your hormones are all over the place.
Is your husband aware of how you're feeling? Do you have any close family/friend you can speak to and just let out how you're feeling?
Hope things get better for you and PM me of you'd like to speak.
3 kids in 3 years here and it's been a rollercoaster
To think that I will be in your situation soon in few months..and I would not dare to say or give advice. It is hard sister but this phase will pass. Newborn stage always hard. We didnt realise we were coming out survive with our 1st baby, but here we are with 2nd baby mashaAllah. My only advice is change your mindset would help.. it is OK to have a messy home. It is OK to have dish /dirty clothes being neglected. It is OK to not having a proper meal but do take away or just having simple meal/same menu everyday. Also, it is OK to feel tired and just being lazy and laying down with your daughter and baby, enjoying minutes with them and gather your energy back. Lastly, please please speak to your husband about your difficulties/ feeling. Get help with your mental health, asking for therapy. If the budget allows, hire a cleaner even if it just few hours only at the weekend. And its ok to ask help from family. Hope you can get through it , we are in the same journey ♡
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