Muslimah Mamas

Is it haram to use sex toys in Islam even if its your husband using them on you? If so, how are you supposed to keep your sex life alive/exciting after years of marriage? Things just become so vanilla

My husband is great and generally super helpful Alhamdulilah but this is our 3rd baby and he’s uncomfortable at this stage changing the baby (which I understand because baby is so delicate and he’s so heavy handed) and now doesn’t want to give the baby a bottle with my breastmilk. I am super tired and would like to take a nap but he’s saying breast is best just do it please don’t give him the bottle. Any advise? Should I sit him down and talk to him again? With the last 2 he was the same for the changing until they were a month old and bottle feeds he was fine but this one he’s refusing. Am I overly sensitive?

Need more friends in the area 😭

My mil is here we live in a small house one living room with two sofas and kitche and moderate garden . She was like she can’t invite her cousin cause our house is too small and then laughed. I found it quite rude just think you should always be humble and say alhamdulilah.

Do I need a peri bottle after birth or will a lota work the same ?