Help!!!

I need to take me and my kids safe somewhere away from abusive baby daddy thinking about going to a homeless shelter don’t really have any where else to go. The only problem is is the baby father has temporary custody of our kids. How he got it I don’t know but can police find me and arrest me if I do go away with our kids?? I seriously don’t want to go to jail I’m just trying to make sure me and my kids are safe and I need to do it soon

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Of he has temporary custody then I wouldn't advise running with them. Speak to a women's aid/domestic abuse service/lawyer x

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1.) has he been physical towards you? 2.) what evidence do you have beside your word? 3.) You have a right to protect your children especially if he’s done harm to them as well. I’m asking because if you don’t have a valid response to these questions it could back fire you taking the kids if he has custody. In the law eyes it’s kidnapping. Also the quickest way out is concrete evidence and a police report. You can’t be going through domestic abuse and sweeping it under a rug it’ll make you look incredible “the girl who cried wolf” and it’ll look bad in court if you intend on having custody. I don’t know your whole story but know having a plan is the best way out. You can message privately me for more info if you need help.. I pray you make the right decision there’s nothing wrong with leaving this relationship with nothing and starting over with just your children.

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**It’ll make your story look deceiving

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I just want to send a prayer your way. I pray that you find the strength to do what you need to get through this difficult situation and I pray that God walks with you through it. I’ve been in a similar situation. Don’t give up. Do what’s best for you and your children and start a new life.

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I prayed immediately after reading this post

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Are you sure he actually has it or he’s lying to scare you? Have you seen paperwork? Did you go to court? Did he go to court? Anyway, I hope you made it out 🫶🏾

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