Can I do this?😞
Feeling really down today and keep thinking can I really do this? I hate not having someone around during my pregnancy I feel like no matter how hard I try I just can’t enjoy it and this isn’t how I wanted it to be, I feel so angry that I’ve been left to go through pregnancy alone and all the appointments, please tell me it gets better, I just cry everyday that my baby’s dad has just abandoned us without a second thought, I now haven’t heard from him in like a month and I just can’t come to terms with it 😓💔 I think what’s setting me off is that I’ll be finding out the gender on my own on Sunday and I just want him there even after everything 😞 I feel like I’m already failing at being a mum as I’m not enjoying my pregnancy at all
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You can do it!!!! Reach out to me if you need support
I’m so so sorry mama. I know exactly what you’re going through. I was abandoned at 8 weeks, by a guy I was with 2 years. I’m at 30 weeks now, and done everything alone. It’s been so much harder than I ever imagined. We have to keep moving forward & reminding ourselves of the amazing gift that comes at the end of this. These beautiful babies will always have us.
Some day these guys will realize all they’ve missed out on. And hopefully they’ll make being a better person a priority. My guy assaulted me😞 I tried so hard to get him to be accountable but I don’t think he ever will. We have to be strong for our babies and keep them safe. Abandonment is abuse too. 🙏💝
You're not alone darling. My baby's dad blocked me and then unblocked me but not talking properly to me... I also feel bad and I also cry but we can do this. One day we'll find a good man who's man enough to love us and our child. I only hope they pay for what they do. But I guess we just have to move on and not allow is to call back into their trap when they decide to come back
I went through this pregnant with my daughter. You can do this. I promise. I know it's hard to deal with and can be lonely at times, but this does not make you a bad mom, and it does not define how you can live your life. One thing I did to help myself is not to dwell on what you can't change in the moment. You can only do what YOU can to make the choice to find happiness and fulfillment in what you have. Easier said, then done, but possible. Hope you feel better soon hun. Got tons of moms here who are supportive, have experienced it, and can help you get through it. 🩵
Your not alone. I haven’t spoken to him since we found out and blocked. Have you got friends or family to talk to? Or speak to your midwife about how your feeling? But also welcome to message me..or I’m sure any of us girls, we are not alone any of us x
Not everyone enjoys it, that's OK and it is hard work but the reward is pure love and joy. Keep in there, think where you want you and baby to be in five years time and make it happen!
You CAN DO IT!!🙂💛
I did everything on my own and i mean everything
He fkd of asap
I struggled ill give you that,and i was emontional
But i got through it and so will you!💛
If you become a single mother
It makes you stronger than you know
I have my moments ,the last few days have been hard i dont get alot of help
Just stay strong honey
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