Is it love?

It sounds one sided 💔 I'm so sorry

Giiiirl it’s sounds like he trying to live double life’s ! & I wouldn’t be trying to be with nobody that still live with they baby mama he probably still fucking on her & in love with her you never know !

No

If I loss him that means I've lost two people because of this when I started talking to him it ruined my friendship with her we were friends for 13 years

Not necessarily. Everyone moves at different paces in life. He honestly may not be ready to say it or there yet.

Wow! You need to leave this man alone. You lost your best friend because of your relationship with him?! That says a lot about you and him. And no, it's not love. It's just for sex.

You should have never started talking to him in the first place. I don't want to be mean, but the truth is that was your "best" friends man, and they broke up or something, and you thought it was a good idea to start talking to him? You were not a good friend to her in that way.
Just move on and learn something from this, like never getting with your best friends, ex. That's just wrong, and I'm sorry you're hurt, but this is what you chose to do.

Giiirl wtf I must didn’t read it all the way thru you fucked up fr why are you talking to your best friend baby daddy ? if I was her I woulda beat yo ass fr I don’t play those type games !

@Yessenia Rodríguez he was nice to me made me feel special and heard

He said he wants to get married even had me send him pictures of rings I like

This is all kinds of messed up. I can't believe you'd even consider any of this. He "wants to get married" but can't even say "I love you" without you asking him to and it feels forced. This is your "best" friends baby daddy. Just stop.

This sounds pretty messy. It's probably not a great idea to be saying you love a guy who you talk to and have only seen in person 3 times, and who has ties to an ex friend. I'd let this one go. Maybe do some therapy to work on you and make sure you're in a good, balanced, stable place for yourself. The willingness to "love" someone who you haven't had all that much of a relationship with doesn't suggest stability, you know? You want to work to get to a place where you love yourself first so you can truly find someone who you love and who will feel the same about you without all the drama.

You have to be more stable now for your baby. Sending pics of rings to a guy you've seen 3x isn't stable. Imagine if this was your daughter and she was telling you she wanted to get engaged to a guy she's "talking to" who won't say I love you to her and who she has seen 3x. 👀

This really feels like you're searching for something you've lacked due to past bfs, family issues, etc. You need to work through that first.

You really should be embarrassed asf fr but you probably not cause you posted anonymously ! You one of them bitches that been looking or talking to your friends niggas or your baby daddy partnas probably why yo baby daddy left yo ass 😂 !! I woulda beat yo ass if I was your best friend but I don’t even let bitches get close to my husband, we don’t play those type games either ! You just need to get it together for that baby fr ! You need to stop trying to bounce from one dick to another lol focus on you & that baby girl a nigga ain’t NEVER been that important then your child !

Way too messy, learn to love yourself more hun

giiiirl bitches believe anything a nigga say when they desperate for attention 😂 they probably laughing at her ass he probably just playing around see how far he can go lol 😂

Also you said “If I loss him that means I've lost two people because of this when I started talking to him it ruined my friendship with her we were friends for 13 years”…. That’s something you should have thought about 100000 times over because crossing that path because it’s not like there wasn’t a chance for it to not work, there’s always a 50/50 chance it will work or it won’t work. And you should have considered that it may not work heavily, you should have considered that you may lose your “best friend” as well as this person…

she probably embarrassed asf that why she ain’t comment back I was thinking the same thing exactly why you lost your best friend bitches ain’t to be trusted friend or not idgaf !

bitches don’t be giving asf she probably been on her best friend nigga like that shit is not cute at all she should be embarrassed for even posting this but that why she posted anonymously lol !

@Princess I just can't wrap my mind around doing that to my best friend or any friend under any circumstances. She just wasn't thinking about anything but her own pain and sadness and trying to fill that whole in her heart in a very wrong way, or that's what it makes me think anyway. People make some poor choices in sadness and desperation.

I do agree with you, I just feel like she needs to do some majorrrrrrrrr self care work and take some years out on herself, learn to love herself , accept him as a mistake and move on

true even if the two girl friends broke up yearssss ago, it’s still very wrong to get with their ex😒

this probably why her baby daddy left her in the first place already being a hoe and easy for mufuckas to talk to ain’t a good look 😂 I would never think to do this to my friend or family like wtf gonna be going on in a mufucka head 😂 she needs her ass beat fr ! I agree she does this sad you talking to your best friends nigga that shit ain’t cute at all she probably been doing hoe shit that why she posted anonymously !

They still live together, with their child, that says something big already. They have commitment issues but they have their own commitments even if you don’t see it and you’re not one of them because he’s not moving in with you. Don’t have hopes for this man. You’re gonna create more drama and that wouldn’t be on anyone. I understand he’s nice to you and makes you feel comfortable but you wouldn’t want your friend doing this to you. They might be working on something for all you know. Also don’t force people to say I love you, be stronger than this. I believe, we were born single and can stay single, we don’t need extra drama for you and you’re daughter.

Look I get yall think I'm some awful person who just causing drama but me and him haven't even ever had sex we live 2 hours away from eachother and if he's not at work he's with his kid. His baby mama refuses to let me around their kid which honestly is a bit dramatic. She freaked out more on me than him when she found out but honestly I decided I didn’t want to be her friend so I don't believe I owe her anything.

Look I decided I didn’t want to be her friend before she freaked out and I got with him I just didn't know how to tell her before she found out

Giiiiiirl you been plotting on her man you was never her friend to begin with tf, If I was her I would still beat yo ass & she still should beat yo ass fr! & it don’t matter if you told her you didn’t want to be her friend no more she had to know something was up with yo weird ass!

He started talking to me asking for advice cause they were always fight he needed to vent its not my fault it turned into more

Yeah! Her ass ain’t even worth it she just a desperate ass bitch!

How is it my fault she didn't appreciate what she had till it was gone she's just mooching off him cause he's to nice to throw her out on the streets

Well you are at fault, because you accepted him in
He is at fault, for approaching you
Piggish behaviour from both ends

exactly!!!!

I’m done giving this bitch attention bye y’all !