I am not moaning one bit as I'm over the moon we have our rainbow baby on the way!
But I'm feeling so under the weather,not myself at all! I would rather be sick then this feeling! I'm in the 2nd trimester now and still feel awful! I feel bad for my partner and son as they aren't getting the best of me! I have a midwife appt next week so will speak to them!
Did or has anyone felt the same with a 2nd pregnancy? Any tips?
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I am in the same boat.

This is my first and I don’t know if I could do this again!! I can’t imagine being pregnant while also taking care of a mini me!! So I give you all lots of kudos for doing it. I would say to try to remind yourself that you are growing a child and have every right to feel this way. You are not choosing to feel this way and should not feel guilty. Just so what you can when you can.

I’m exactly the same also! I know they say every pregnancy is different.
But I’ve definitely had a shock with how I feel this time round in comparison to my first! Xx

I completely agree with this. I have been a half assed partner and parent the last few months feeling so crappy. I can’t tell if it’s worse than the first pregnancy or just because I feel worse for not showing up- and also sick. I’ve entered second trimester but it’s not been the relief I was expecting. Still tough.

they do say each is different but this is worlds apart from my first! 😂😂 it's definitely not what I thought going onto the 2nd trimester was going to be like at all!
I'm glad it's not just me out there that feels this way! You can kinda get in to it's just me that feels like this! I will definitely be talking to the midwife about any tips! And if I get a good response I will put in here for you guys!

Completely understand, I thought my first pregnancy was hard. I just can't catch up on sleep I'm never not exhausted and I'm so ill all the time. Then I have the guilt of not being enough for my first baby xx

Aw ladies none of you are in it alone with any of these feelings. Sometimes it’s just reassuring knowing others feel the same…
Someone once said to me. If your worried your not enough/doing good enough etc etc. you already are enough a good mum etc because bad/lazy parents don’t give it a second thought . ❤️

14 and a half weeks and still feel and am sick as girl. Ill pray for us!