BF hasn’t met friend
Is it weird that my bf is so pressed to meet my friends . Every time I mention me being invited to something or going out with friends he starts an argument with me . The opportunity he had to meet my friends he wasn’t there by choice . My friends don’t live in the same city and we haven’t gone out or had anything to invite them to so he can meet them .. I have met most of his close friends because they live in the same town and frequent him more often than mine . He says things like Whose birthday dinner? Another “friend” I don’t know? I don’t know any of your so called friends. Never heard of them. Never met them. Which is not completely true , he has heard of them he has just never met them . It’s always an issue when it come to me going out and doing something but he can tell
Me he’s going out the day of and there’s supposed to be no issue . He always says that he has never met my friend but has never asked to meet them or told me to set anything up . I’m at the point I don’t feel comfortable telling him I’m doing anything or Been invited anywhere because he gets mad at me every time and takes thing to far . I think it’s not about the friend I think he just thinks I supposed to have no life while he does and just stay at home and be mom 25/7.
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Babe, he's trying to control you.
Gaslighting you to think you shouldn't even be going out? F him! Go out when you can, especially if it helps you stay sane and be able to connect with your friends.
Tell him that if you can't go out with your friends, it's only fair he can't go out with his, despite being in the same city. Relationships are fair. If he's going to make a fuss when you want to go out, do the same to him when he goes out, doesn't matter whether it's before or after just ruin his night if he wants to ruin yours.
Otherwise you could just leave him but I feel like most women don't want to do that.
have you spoken to him
about it like in detail ?? maybe he feels like you met all his close friends and wants to meet yours too. my bf is kinda the same way but he’s actully met mine and if we have a girls night I think he gets a bit jelous lol. but find a way to make him feel comfortable and he may feel more comfortable if he meets them and knows you’re in good company. I wouldn’t think too deep I to yet. now if he’s has met then and you all hung out before and he’s still acting like this then yea Houston we have a problem. but I get how u feel too because with him acting the way he does you prob don’t even want him to meet your friends. ughhhhh. I say try it out and see what happens after.
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