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First time mums

I feel so bad for those who can’t have kids..

My heart goes out to good honest, hard-working have their priorities, straight people that can’t have kids naturally, that they have to go through other means of being able to feel that love and to be able to have a family, not saying that adoption and IVF is not natural it 100% is, but you know what I mean, and then you have people in my opinion of the people that I know that are having kids They’re just scum they haven’t worked a day in their life. They are abusing alcohol drugs while pregnant. They live in squalor and they are having kids. I am no one to judge because when I found out I was pregnant I was not financially stable and I did look down the abortion route but that was not something that I wanted so I got my priorities straight so that I could provide and have a good home for my baby and my family but I physically know people that should not be let out of hospitals with their babies. After having my son there was a lady mid 20s early 30s had a baby and the smell of alcohol off her would knock you she was in and out of the hospital there was groups of lads in cars waiting for her and I’m telling you now that they were high and I wouldn’t surprise me if she was she would let her baby cry all night and the midwives had to come in and deal with the baby she was sent home with that baby. I was across the room. I could smell the alcohol off of her and walking past her in the hall. Why are hospitals leaving people going home with babies when they smell of alcohol and they physically know that there are no State of mind to be going home with the baby I know somebody that I wouldn’t call my friend, but I know her I know she abuses, alcohol and drugs and she did that with her first pregnancy now I don’t know all the medical terms and conditions of her pregnancy but she gave birth to a stillborn. They must of known that it was something to do with drugs in her system.
ladies you know that we are in and out of hospital getting blood tests you mean to tell me that “smoke” and another alcohols and other drugs does not show up on their system. This post comes from a good place. I know a lot of people that do drugs and have kids but they are still able to provide for their family and that is 100% okay, but I’m talking about the people that physically can’t provide for themselves don’t mind a baby and I know a lot of people might come for me after this post, but the girl that had a stillborn (that told me it was because of drugs) has just been left home with her new baby and it breaks my heart because I know that baby is not going to be raised up he’s going to be dragged up and I feel the hospital social team do not do enough where I am from… I’m sorry if this offends anyone. But I’m just so upset about this new baby and knowing what he has to go home too.