Partner going out

So my boyfriend has been wanting to go out almost weekly now with an old buddy that keeps inviting him. who before didn’t even bother replying back to him and always cancelled. I told him no because I don’t want it to become a habit going out for drinks again. Keep in mind I didn’t speak to him for three months because he rather drink and go out with “friends”. then I decided to give him another final chance. I’m just so traumatized because I don’t want to deal with it all over again where he picks his buddy over family. Am I in the wrong ?

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I don't think you're in the wrong especially if it causes problems and bad habits for you guys last time but I do think occasionally him going out might not be too bad. He just needs to take it slow