Checking out girls on Facebook

Does he know you’ve been on his phone?
You could just ask, tbh I have so many randomers on my search history because I’m nosey see a post and want to find their sisters, aunties, uncles, cousins cat🤦🏽‍♀️🤣
It could be innocent, just ask him.

It was on our laptop, He's visited there profiles and the girls are all ass an tits, it could be yeah but when he's gone back a month later to the same girl, Really makes me question things 🙈

Does he go on only fans by any chance?
Just wondering if he’s going to search for more content

Not that I know of, I've not checked his phone just seen his Facebook logged into the laptop otherwise everything would be on his phone

My boyfriend did this early in my relationship but ya'll ain't gon like how I handled it 😭😭 hasn't happened since.

We're 8yrs in now🙈 I can imagine! I wanna go absolutely mad but for a few searches... if somthings gunna show it's Gunna show only if I can see it. Otherwsie his guard is up 🤣 head's fell off 🤷

@Megan I wanna know what you done 😂

I've seen this shit on my partners insta, Facebook, twitter searches, then found out in his discord there was a group of the 'lads' from xbox sending eachother all of that 🤦🏻‍♀️ gave him a warning & he deleted his app (don't mean he ain't logging in through a webpage instead tho 🙄) & same as you this was whilst carrying my first & continued after i had her for months. Became o vious to me once he began talking the me more shitty than nornal, barely visiting us, i felt avoided even when with him. Made me unable to fully trust which hes aware of

yeah I can imagine it broke the trust, It's a hard one isn't it. I've never seen anything before an it's been odd days in sept he's visited profiles it says, He doesn't play Xbox etc or do anything other than social media, I've not said anything upto now and just watched to see what was what but I still feel like I'm not good enough if he's looking elsewhere 🙈

Yeah I sat & watched to see what happens, although I made little hints in my conversations to see any facial reactions etc. I feel the same, I figure (regardless of other people's views/opinions on certain boundaries) that if you need to look at anyone else by choice other than your partner to feel good, then they clearly don't think a lot of their partner or their feelings.. especially the ones who are fully aware they've been told it's a boundary 💩 I couldn't care for who is fine with that stuff - it aint fine with me 🤣

@ellie when I went through his phone he was sleeping cause he was getting notifications from a page on ig that promoted twerking and I poured cold water on him to wake him up, threw his phone at him and said "fix it". When I looked through it I found all types of stuff on social media and when I calmed down me and him sat down and had a conversation like "hey these women dont look anything like me, it feels like infidelity when you're looking at them for pleasure" he got it. I feel lucky that he's very considerate of my feelings, and he's actually put more effort to reassure me and we can sit fully open phones and scroll through any social app together these days.

@Megan oh wow I'll be doing the same thing if is see it again. I'm terrible for keeping quiet until appropriate - however anytime should be appropriate when so disrespected now you've said it like that. I'll make it a bucket of iced water 🫢🤣 it's a long time deserved