Not sure how to feel but Friday night I was accused of being in love with someone called "Sarah" I put this in brackets aa I ain't entirely sure this ever happened I was asleep and apparently I said no I don't love you I love Sarah now I have no recollection of any of this happening all I know is I was woken up with an angry voice saying to me who the fuck is Sarah and that I love her so who the fuck is Sarah now to me I was shocked and confused and the whole situation and I even replied I don't even know a Sarah I was then told that I can go and fuck myself I am a horrible bitch and I can go the fuck away I've tried explaining that I am in no way in love with someone called Sarah and that I am really confused I've offered to hand over my phone's iPads etc etc there is no Sarah. I was and I do know this singing the Sarah and duck theme tune in my head and sometimes quotes from the show pop in to my head up be honest I ain't going to go and grovel for forgiveness for something that I haven't done all I know is the words that was shouted at me the go fuck myself horrible bitch and go the fuck away is haunting me this is not the sort of behaviour I expect from my partner of 10 years.
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My narcissistic ex used to do stuff like this to me. He would accuse me of something and set it up so I couldn’t prove he was creating the conflict. I would be begging and reassuring and saying and doing everything I could think of to try and convince him I wasn’t doing anything wrong. I could never prove it, but I figured it out eventually. You probably weren’t talking in your sleep at all.