Chemical Pregnancy/Early Miscarriage Support

Miscarriage👼🏼🥹

I honestly feel as though I’ve just had the worst week of my life, I turned up for my 12 week scan to find out my tiny little angel had no heartbeat. I’m completely devastated, me and my partner have been trying for 2 years for a baby and it’s ended like this. I just feel so empty and out of touch with the world, I’m trying to be strong for my children’s sake but I’ve never been through anything so hard before. I had a medical management of miscarriage, I had no clues as to me miscarrying either. On the scan not only was there no heartbeat but baby also had Cystic Hygroma, abnormal amount of fluid in the stomach and chromosome abnormalities.

My post is just in hope there’s some support if anyones been in a similar position as right now I’m struggling to deal with my emotions.

Thank you 👼🏼💖

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Sorry to hear about your loss - it is the most hardest journey to be on.
Can I ask - did you have any previous scans that had shown a heartbeat or was this your first scan?

My first known miscarriage was in 2018. Even still to this day my body will put me in a funk and I will look at the calendar and it will be the anniversary of my miscarriage. I had two other known miscarriages last year. My fertility doctor thinks I have had more. It is the hardest thing to go through. It still makes me sad thinking I never got to meet those little angels. It took me months to feel better and more myself. Just don’t be hard on yourself, I know it’s easy to put the blame on yourself but it won’t help. So sorry for your loss! ❤️

I’m so sorry hun. I found out I had a missed miscarriage at a private scan. We’d been trying for 18 months at that point,and I have no children. That was in may but we’ve now been trying over 2 years and no luck. My partner has fertility issues and I’m nearly 39 so I’m feeling soooo anxious about everything. I was in a really bad place after my miscarriage so I totally understand the pain you’re feeling. It does get a little easier but I’m still triggered by so many things 😞

Hey I just had a missed miscarriage and medical management last week too. Please feel free to message me if you want to talk xx

I’m so sorry. I just found out the same thing at 12 weeks. It’s absolutely horrible and I’m here for you if you need to talk mama ❤️

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