Am I getting mad over nothing?
My bf (our sons father) doesn’t know our sons schedule. I’m the one that does everything for our son (feeding, changing, baths, naps/bed) and have for 2 years. The other day I was cleaning the house a bit and was busy for maybe an hour so my bf watched him. A little while later my bf comes upstairs with our son and says (I don’t remember if it was 12:00 or 12:30) “it’s (blank time)” I was kinda confused because it wasn’t my sons nap time yet so I said “ok he doesn’t nap until (X time)” my bf said “oh I didn’t know that”. I’m confused as to how he doesn’t know that because his nap time has been the same for a while. And then something similar happened like the day after except for our sons bedtime. I’m confused on how he doesn’t know our sons schedule, especially since he says I don’t parent the way I should, mostly saying I don’t pay enough attention to our son. Maybe I’m overreacting but I kind of find it ridiculous that this man that not only lives with us but is also the father to our son doesn’t know his schedule.
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My husband did that too for a bit. It definitely was aggravating. But now he knows and follows our son's cues. But it's definitely ok to get upset over that. Everyone that watches your kid should know their schedule.
we’ve talked about stuff like that and he just says that he “can’t remember everything”
my son doesn’t really give very many cues so it’s hard to tell sometimes when he’s tired.
Yep my boys dad is the same way
Maybe have a written schedule somewhere? Maybe even under the guise of having it for the kid? I understand that doesn’t fix the underlying issue,….
unfortunately I still don’t think he’d pay attention to it. I have a big white board calendar and he asked what day it was when he was standing right next to it.
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