Four weeks 3days and scared

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IVF baby cooking. I've miscarried before and I just feel so anxious it'll happen again! On one end it doesn't feel real yet I guess. This one is completely different than my miscarriage pregnancy but it's also earlier (I lost that one at 5.5weeks and was soooo tired all the time. This one I have energy and my only symptoms have been some foot aversion, tender enlarged breasts and cramps. I'm just worried. Is anybody else worried? How do you manage the worries?

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Hi! I’m 4 wks 2 days and nervous but just trying to tell myself I have no control over it, that I just have to trust my body and take good care of myself right now. Also trying to tell myself I deserve to enjoy this but definitely feel scared, like if I enjoy it too much it will be taken away from me or something like that…

I am 6 weeks tomorrow. I have been anxious ever since I saw that positive pregnancy test. I just try to keep myself busy and try not to think about it, which is easier said than done. I think I will (should) feel better once I am past the first trimester. I have never gotten that far. I have had 3 known miscarriages and the fertility doctor thinks I have had more. It’s tough. Just try to stay positive and lean on someone you can trust and who can make you feel better. For me that’s my husband. Congratulations on your baby ❤️

thank you. ❤️❤️❤️ I hope we both feel less anxious once we get out of first trimester

I know how u feel this is my 13th pregnancy I've lost 8 n have 4 kids. I had 3 successful pregnancies in a row and I starting getting more confident n then I had a missed miscarriage in February n that became a partial miscarriage (I took the pill instead of having a d&c) that happened twice then I went septic. This is my first pregnancy since. I'm only 4 weeks but I'm a nervous wreck 😩 I'm also had placental choriocarcinoma n a ruptured corneal ectopic pregnancy. I've had alot of bad luck with pregnancies.

I hope all goes smoothly for both of us Jocelyn 🙏

thank u and me too!!

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Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Not the best pic and clearer in person. Is this normal? I've not had any sex since having my LO but I've had strong cravings, sense of smell is strong and my hair still hasnt started to fall out. Im 7 weeks pp so 🤷‍♀️ I wouldnt normally bother testing but with those symptoms that I never really have its like whats going on. Cravings for something very specific too and can only get from KFC now 😩 so its annoying

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Can baby mamas be friends?

My son has an older brother from his biodad. Biodad has never had contact with my son. One thing lead to another though and the other child's mother and I got in contact and are planning a meeting for the boys. Biodad has no idea any of this has happened. Biodad also hasnt had contact with the other child in about 2 years. Just thoughts, opinions, anyone been through something similar?
Edit-Thank you all! Have definitely been feeling somewhat weird about it because we never met before but now know it can be a good thing definitely helps. I can't wait for them to meet. My son has been asking for a brother and I can now happily tell him he has one. That just happens to be 13. Im sorry for yall that fight/have issues with the other baby mamas. Sadly some women rather be stuck on the men, when the kid is the one who really matters. They're the ones that end up getting hurt and missing out.

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Please please someone clarify if this test is positive. Im pretty sure it is but Im in disbelief at the minute I haven’t ovulated in 8 months. I feel like crying lol. When is the best time to have sex?

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I know this group is for pregnancy test but just want to double check this ovulation test is positive. I haven’t had a positive ovulation test in months and months I think Im gonna cry. When is best to have sex after a positive ovulation test and how likely is it to get pregnant?

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