I NEED HELP Bad! How would u go about this?

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, especially again.

I’m not religious, but if there’s a God I have to believe he’d forgive you if you chose to abort.

I’m not going to tell you that you should or shouldn’t abort, but I suggest looking into every possibility.

Is there a chance that the father will find out and want any custody?

Are you financially set to have another child?

Do you think you can love this baby as much as your other children?

Do you have a support system to help you cope with this?

Hey if you believe in God, BELIEVE IN HIM. Ask Him for PEACE that surpasses all understanding. I’m sorry you had to be a victim of such violence. I will pray for you and I’m here if you want to message me anytime. I’m one of the ones that will tell you, if you abort that baby it’ll be in heaven for sure but you miss out on an inheritance from God, you commit a murder in the eyes of a Holy God, you are giving up a reward that ultimately is from God. And even though it is hard to understand bigger pictures at times of adversity… the PAIN you feel now is nothing compared to the joy that is to come. I hope you know you are loved. So loved. And your babies are too. 🙏🏼💜💜💜💜💜 GOD bless you lovely.

So sorry you went through this. Have you spoken to a professional about all this, that may help you in your decision, I can't tell you what you should do, maybe get some advice and any help from close family and friends for support. ❤️

😔 😭 😭 as I lay here crying my eyes out thank y’all I’m hurting because at 5 weeks I couldn’t heat the heart beat now at 8 weeks it’s pumping heavy that’s what’s hurting me the most to know that it’s definitely murder in the sight of God if I abort

everybody keeps telling me this I’m trying to believe this so hard 😭

Thanks for affirming me 😭😭😭

In my personal opinion u do what u want and what will give u peace I’m so so sorry this happened I been through similar not the same

would you keep the baby if it happened to you?

tbh I couldn’t tell u…cus if this was a complete stranger i don’t think I would keep it tbh… but if this was a partner and some hnconsentual things happened idk it would be different… cus I’ve experienced this and was still so in love..

it wasn’t a complete stranger it’s such a long story I just can’t believe what he did to me tho just to get sex it’s sad I would have never thought!b

I’m so sorry :( if u ever need someone to vent to I’m here and I have a hot line u can call and u can vent and get resources and opinions

thanks love

I would never do adoption it’s not the baby fault it’s the situation that hurts me mentally ! I’m upset with the monster who did this! But thanks for your response ! I’m keeping my baby !! It just hurts mentally that’s all

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this! I've been sexually assaulted multiple times, and I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. Nobody can tell you what or what not to do, but it is important to think about your mental well-being whichever decision you make. And like someone else said: would you be able to care for another child? Would you be able to love this child the same as your others? How will this pregnancy affect your mental health, considering how it came about? Talking to a professional could be very helpful for you, to work through your feelings and explore all your options.

Also, God's forgiveness isn't limited. He knows your heart, and he doesn't want you to suffer

Sending love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️

Thankyou! The issue isn’t having another child the whole thing is the situation! And I would love all of my kids the same NO matter what! I just think the child don’t deserve me or to be fatherless but it also don’t deserve to be aborted either once I hear a heart beat it’s hard for me to go that route I’ve done it before. It’s messed me up mentally I’ll never forget that! And of course I can afford another child or 2 if I want to but it’s the SITUATION!!! And I’ll be seeing a therapist next week! And pre meditated sin is the worse!! As much as I want to abort simply because of the situation I won’t! I’m keeping my baby and God will be with me every step of the way!

it’s never the child fault!! It’s the predator fault!! But NOW it’s my job to protect my baby not hurt it anymore by killing it! It hurts to even think about abortion it’s hard to heal from that! Because it’s always the WHAT IFS and guilt that comes after it and I promised God I wouldn’t do it again! I know if I keep my promise to him he will keep his to me too 🙏🏾 I gotta just fully trust him

@Anonymous I never meant to insinuate that it would be the baby's fault, and I truly apologize if that's how it came across. I'm wishing you all the best! ❤️

Thankyou for your response! No worries!

thanks for trying to help!