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Sex and Relationships with Railey Molinario

Thinking of breaking up…

Me and my partner we are together from 7 years , I feel like is going downhill , we start arguing all the time and most of them we end and he blame me for everything , we used to be so good together always laughing he recently find out he has a health condition and since then he became different , some days he is amazing as he used to but most of them he is just always angry and keeps things for himself he doesn’t open up at all with me or blame his condition for every single feeling he has headache , stomachache etc , everyday he things he has a sickness , because he is becoming so close he keeps me outside , I feel like he only cares when it’s time to have sex , he planned holidays for his hobby (fishing ) without even ask me if I was okay with it saying ( he can do it now and not tomorrow so he has to) but I don’t like things how they’ve become, we have a 15 months old baby and I’m thinking of breaking up the only reason why I didn’t is for him and because I keep repeat myself is gonna get back the way it was but is almost a year and nothing has changed and because he has good days and bad days when I see him on his good days I keep remind the past and so I think on giving him another chance , I tried to tell him that something in our relationship doesn’t work anymore and he answered “ if u wanna break up just tell me !” I mean I’m not saying we have to but maybe we can work on things together but he doesn’t seems like he wants. Am I overthinking it , any advise?