I don’t want to be without my daughter. Tomorrow will be the first night my baby spends without me since we brought her home from the hospital. We have a wedding we are attending and my mom is going to keep my daughter but I can’t help the feeling that I would rather come home to my baby to sleep with her than spend the night out. Am I wrong? How do I get over it? My husband is excited to have some alone time but I feel sad because I won’t see my baby for almost 24 hours.
Read more on PeanutThe views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.
Learn more about our guidelines.
I feel the same way. I know it’s healthy to focus on myself and my husband and have alone time but I just would prefer not to lol. Would rather be with my baby boy. Working on trying to be better too.

I’m so sorry mama it is so hard! I did this around 5 months for
Best friends ski trip and my hubby stayed w my baby. I was SOOO anxious didn’t wanna go at all. But once I got there it was so nice and was so happy I stepped away. If you trust your mama with everything I say it’s ok to be anxious but go ♥️ reconnect w hubs and enjoy yourself

I feel the same I'm so not ready to leave her overnight, but if something came up I suppose I would be able to.

I feel the same way tonight was my first night out without my baby. The first half of the night I thought about how I miss my baby and wanted to be there with him but then realize that I really needed to not be dependent on being with him 24/7

My mil kept him one night last weekend for our anniversary and our house was so quiet and felt empty. I hated it even though I knew he was totally fine with her