Just me or ….
Does anyone else’s man be all cute and affectionate everyday but then y’all have sex and he just doesn’t talk to you afterwards till you go to bed and then all you get is “ I love you “ and a kiss..?
My boyfriend is my best friend we have been friends for 7 years and dating for 2 out of the 7 years of knowing each and he’s super sweet and amazing boyfriend and amazing dad to our daughter but when we have sex don’t get me wrong it’s great ! But after he just sits there and doesn’t say shit and just watches tv .
Kinda makes me feel like shit .. is it just me in my head or ??
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Honestly maybe he doesn't realize how that makes you feel. You should try talking with him and tell him how you feel when he does that and ask him why he does it. Communication is super important for the intimacy to continue after the sex is over
we’ve had this conversation before like idk last year I think and everything got better and now he’s doing it again and I just don’t know if he doesn’t remember the talk about it or if like you said he doesn’t realize it and how it makes me feel
Try again. He could have forgot the convo and he could just not realize he's still doing it. It's man brain. They don't always work full time. Lol
you got a fair point lol it still sucks tho
It does suck. I'm having my own relationship problems right now and mine keep happening weekly. I'm about done with it
what’s wrong
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Post nut clarity? Lol he’s in deep thought about stuffs after ?
😂😂 girl idk but thanks for the laugh
It’s the opposite for me. He isn’t affectionate in the slightest until sex. He’s a great dad and fiancé and everything is just ugh
I hate the way it feels tho just being completely ignored like I’m not there after sex
Aftercare is so important after sex. You should talk to him about how this is making you feel. Especially since you say y’all Re best friends. Hopefully it’ll be a smooth convo. Good luck 🍀
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