Me and BD had your child in 2020.
He had another one in 2021.
They were together for few months then she trapped him. (Me and him were never together we were fwb)
They broke up October 2021.
Me and BD slept together 2 weeks ago 🤦🏻♀️ now I just looked on Snapchat and his sister tagged the other BM and called her ( sister in law) so obviously they are together.
Idc am happy for them but did I make him cheat on her 😕 it’s all I’m thinking about.
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No you didn’t make him cheat on her, especially if you thought they were broken up. You can feel guilty for the fact that you’ve now found out he was possibly in a relationship at the time you slept together but don’t blame yourself. That’s all on him.
Honestly he’s sounds like a POS and I would stay far away unless it’s strictly to do with your child you have together.

You didn’t make him do anything. He deceived you to get what HE wants. If he was in a relationship, he knew about it and cheated by his own accords. Don’t feel guilty. It wasn’t anything to blame yourself for. He sounds like trash 🙄

he's playing the both of yall please remove yourself from that situation and if i were you id tell the other woman too it's fucked up and men shouldn't be comfortable thinking they can play with women