He doesn’t want another baby but did before I got pregnant 😭😫😴 this feeling that I get from keeping this baby is unsettling 🥹🫠

I'm sorry you're feeling like that

Do you think He might just be scared?? my husband was, he asked to talk about me having an abortion and once we did it calmed a lot of his nerves and we agreed that our baby was a blessing not something to be scared of.

Girl I have been there and 100% regret. He was threatening me and everything. I was so scared. I wish I had confided in people back then so I wouldn’t have felt alone or like I didn’t have a choice.
Stand your ground 💪🏽

That would be very unsettling. I understand people change their minds, but telling you to abort your child seems too far in my mind. The deed cannot be undone. Good for you for standing on what you want and just know if you have to, you can do it on your own.

it might be the fact that he had another child while we split so I’m sure he’s scared , it’s just unfair to me 🫠

what did u do

no I agree it’s completely unfair to you. If he didn’t want another child he shouldn’t have laid down w/ you. And to just tell you to get an abortion is extremely unsettling so I understand where you are coming from 100% But I’m sure once your baby is here it will calm down alittle bit. I hope you guys figure it out 🩵

Mom's do this alone everyday. It's not what we plan but watching our little ones grow up is always worth it. My oldest is 16. His donor told me to abort because he didn't want DNA test and wasn't staying. I made appointment and never went. My baby is bigger than me and he's my world. Never let a boy tell you what to do. Never do anything you're unsure about. You got this.

Girl I was scared I thought he was going to hurt me or the baby. He was threatening me and making my life hell. So I did it. But I regret it everyday, even years later. I wish I had been smarter and asked other ppl for help bc I didn’t know what the hell I was doing. And now I have ptsd. I live with the trauma.

Only do it if YOU want to.
I never wanted to have an abortion so after I did it, I was mentally destroyed. Like seriously suicidal. So don’t do it if you don’t want to, because that’s going to be a baby that you will never ever get back. And you have to live with that for the rest of your life

its your choice! 🩵🩷 proud of you for sticking by it. thats something you cant change ur mind about once its been done & then be mad at the other person for sticking by the initial decision... its unfair to you, your body & your baby..

coming from experience - i let a situation turn me into getting an abortion and i wasnt able to get pregnant for yearssss - i regret it bc i was scared i messed up my chances - im pregnant now finally BUT now I have a short cervix/stitches to keep my cervix closed because thats a risk that comes with abortion- cervical damage.

today i would have done things differently.

Abort HIM (the dad) and keep ya baby 🥰

I'm pro choice but if you want to keep the baby, then keep the baby but understand you will be a single mother.

thank you 😭

awwww thank you for sharing that 🥹🩶

how you feeling?

Hey love I went through the same thing a couple years ago and I had no one to talk to or go to about it and he forced me into it and it’s one of my biggest regrets and I think about it all the time. Don’t do anything unless you absolutely 100% want to do it. I hated my life so much after that and the physical and mental pain was terrible for me.

I went through the same pressure from my ex. He left me after 4 years of being together and me raising his children and a few days later I found out I was pregnant. Weeks before he had talked about when he was going to propose to me and then broke up with me. Honestly? I was the easy drop compared to everything else in his life.

He said I should abort the baby and tried to make it like he was being considerate of my feelings, but in an argument he told me he wanted nothing to do with the baby. He then tried to get me to give the baby up, but ultimately I made the best choice for me and kept my baby.

I will admit that I went through some dark days. His kids could tell something was off and when they finally found out I was pregnant, I suffered his narcissistic rage and he was yelling and screaming all over the place in my house. I told him I wouldn't lie to the kids and he kept saying I fucking should. Long story short, he was toxic and once I removed that factor from my life and my baby's, we're better ❤️

My daughters father wanted me to get an abortion and I was going to cuz I didn’t want him mad at me and all that but I thought about and realized I would be doing it for him and just knew I wouldn’t be able to live my life wondering what if I kept it. So I changed my mind and he was very upset for a long time and was not nice and very negative and kept trying to convinced me to get one even went far as to say I trapped him

But I stand my ground and kept my blessing! And now my baby girl is 7 months old and I’m just so in love and so happy I didn’t get one! She is my everything and now she is his everything and he is very much involved in her life.

In all do what you think you can live with for the rest of your life

Don't let him make u feel bad I made a mistake the very first time I was pregnant with my then ex and I let him talk me and brainwash me into an abortion. It is something I still don't forgive myself over and it is an awful experience just for him to end up not wanting to be a dad..