Baby porridge

I know there are so many people against it and guidelines and everything but…

My little girl is 13 weeks tomorrow and she’s had her first tiny bit of baby porridge today and she’s been so settled after it!! Even when going to sleep when she would normally kick off!!

Had anyone else tried their little ones on it??

in our community

Advice 🥹

So me and my partner (11yrs) had an argument last night to the point he sat down on his phone and done nothing for our kids all night. This morning he then stayed in bed while I sorted the kids out for school and took them to school. I didn’t bother going back home because I’m fed up that he doesn’t pull his weight. Anyway, I went to a family members house this morning and haven’t engaged in conversation and then I get these messages from him.

So heartbroken I found out my partner is cheating

She posted a bunch of pictures of them together, him in bed kissing her, matching outfits, them at Christmas events etc, hell she has more picture with him than I have of him with the kids in the last year.

I can’t even make sense of it all. We were together 14 years and have kids under 5 including a baby.

I feel like the worst part is the silence. I messaged him a bunch of the photos like wtf how could you do this? How could you be with someone else over a year? He responded with a typo saying “it hasn’t been a year it’s actually been a for a few months”. I don’t know if he meant over a few months or only a few months and it’s driving me insane not to know. He hasn’t opened my messages since Sunday morning. Like umm I’m home alone with babies and my whole world is crashing and you can’t even check your phone? What if there was an emergency? No apology no nothing

It’s a woman I know but hadn’t seen in a few years but our last convo she knew I was pregnant. I messaged her asking how long they been together and how could she date him and flaunt it knowing we had a family and sent pics of our family but she blocked me and changed her page to private. They still follow each other so I don’t think they are broken up but the last post of them was December.

I just can’t believe this. We actually have been doing great in our relationship in the last 3 months things were better than ever. I had zero idea any of this was going on

I hate not knowing if/when he’s coming home? Is he at least coming up with a fake apology or something or will he just be angry and act like he’s done nothing wrong. I can’t believe that was his only response and the typo is driving me mad lol

I haven’t slept or even ate since I found out. I’m so heartbroken we just had celebrated his birthday Saturday with the kids and had such an amazing day out, it was so beautiful our toddler was running around saying daddy daddy daddy which she just learned to say and now I’m just like wtfffffff

I m so sick of life,I hate everything.

I hate where I live,I hate where I work,o hate myself because I can't move forward...today I was sitting in a staffroom,dinner ladies were talking about going on a cruise and I m thinking how??? I work longer hours and can't afford to go to Wales! I live in two bed council flat and I can't use garden because there idiots smoking weed,where I work,I m lowest of the lowest,whatever I try,no one listens,I cant move forward after DV and I'm terrified because I m on my own with my daughter,and I always have to say no to her because food is more important,I feel like I m letting her down,I can't sleep at night because I hate my life so much!

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Last week they did a mothers afternoon tea and provided cakes, sandwiches for the kids and mothers. They also had haribo marshmallows on offer! I was suprised to see this as they are full or sugar and also a choking hazard! Would you say anything? Ive emailed a few times and I'm worried they are going to hate me but I just found it odd. Yes they could have been for the mums but why would you have marshmallows there. What would you do? X

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My problem is I’ve only been back at work a few weeks from maternity leave and I’ve already had to take a week off due to her seizures and hospital visits and stays
And She’s had more this past week and it’s becoming tricky with work as child care is an issue with the seizures but financially I can’t afford to give up my job but I don’t think I have another option right now just looking for advice on universal credit and what options I have right now