Braxton hicks interfering with sex life

Hey all! I debated posting this, but I wanted to ask if anyone else was having issues with Braxton hicks whenever they are having sex or masturbating? My libido is high, but I’m getting cockblocked by my own body 😂 I’m 20 weeks and noticed the Braxton hicks first happening around 17 weeks. It’s not the worst, but it definitely kills the mood and I also worry that I’ll do bodily damage by ignoring it and not relaxing once it starts 😅

If anyone else has experienced this, were you able to find a solution to it?

Thanks!

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I’ve had this a few times! I mostly get them during sex or if I’m walking a lot, I haven’t really found a solution, just had to go slower, rest for a bit (when walking) or change position! I wasn’t sure what it was at first and kept thinking I was getting stitches but then read up on braxton hicks and realised that’s actually what I’d been feeling😅

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Thanks! Those are great ideas - I miss being intimate with my husband because I feel like as soon as we start my stomach clenches up and then mentally I am so distracted and he then feels bad lol

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yes!! I was worried I was starting to cone and have abdominal separation, but it is very round 😅

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Omg just don't, happens to me almost every time, I'm only ten weeks, after the deed or during I have to stop and am quite literally on all fours feeling like I'm giving birth with pain and contractions. I spoke to midwife this week and she wasn't concerned at all, it happens to many women it's related to blood flow etc etc. annoying but not concerning unless it comes with bleeding she said xx

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You could also try using a vibrator during to help keep the muscles relaxed! Laying on your side might be more effective as well.

My mood killer unfortunately isn’t BH, it’s babygirl going crazy in there every time I try 😂

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ok super reassuring she wasn’t concerned about it 😅🙌🏽 and oh man, that sounds horrible! Thankfully mine are not that painful, but def alarming the first couple of times until I realized what it was!

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good ideas! And LOL, she’s like yeah.. not happening today 😂

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