If your husband looks at half naked women, is that cheating?
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pray for your husband && encourage him to be honest with you even when he falls short or does the things he says he won’t in reference to watching porn or things that are inappropriate. Tell him you can’t support him or walk beside him in places he struggles if he’s not honest..
if its a boundary you have said youre not comfortable with him crossing and he still does it, i would consider it cheating absolutely.
Half naked woman? No, i don't consider that cheating. Most girls/woman/females on social media these days are "half naked." Is he looking at porn? Or just looking at girls on YouTube? I personally don't see anything wrong with that, but you're entitled to feeling however, and only you/your husband know the boundaries within your relationship. The only thing you can do is talk to him about it. I'm sorry that you're having you feel that way.
@Irene dont you think itd be less about what theyre wearing (or not wearing) and more about WHY hes doing it? if she explained shes not comfortable and he stopped but then went back to it without telling her he knows what hes doing is a breach of trust
It depends on the situation and why he’s looking at other women…is he looking for the intention of cheating? Is he looking as he may feel something is lacking within your marriage etc? There could be any number of reasons as to why he is looking. I think you need to have a very open conversation with him your feelings are valid if that’s a boundary for you that is the only way to determine why he is looking. For me it wouldn’t particularly bother me personally but if he was say on tinder or messaging other girls that’s an entirely different matter and I wouldn’t be happy ! But as I said if that was your boundary then your feelings are valid and I hope you guys get to the bottom of it x
I definitely appreciate your guy’s advice and opinions on this subject. It’s gonna help me have a better conversation with him. We tried last night but I felt like we need a divorce…he was just nonstop crying and apologetic etc but he made that choice? it was a breach of trust especially since we established what we consider cheating and both have agreed and promised and made our vows. He also stated that in our vows were supposed to stick together through thick and thin so is there really someone who’s more right? I want to honor my vows but he didn’t necessarily honor them when he made the decision to look at other half naked women which was incredibly pornographic. It wasn’t like a bikini or some fitness chick…it was a woman who clearly was very sexual and getting male attention. Ugh. Idk what to do. He leaves for deployment for a year in January. Trust is gonna be hard if we continue marriage. He took work off today because he wants to do anything he can to save our marriage etc
You saying he was looking at porn?