Has anyone else's BD never met your child?

Honestly, my BD is not in the pic either. He shows up once in a blue moon and brings loads of drama for a week and disappears again for a while. Wasn’t there throughout my pregnancy either so kinda look at him as a sperm doner 😂🤡

My sons dad has seen him about 5 times, they have no pictures and he wasn't apart of my pregnancy or apart of his life

My daughter has never met her dad, and I pray she never will. I left him while I was pregnant and moved away. He doesn’t know where I am. I’m happy that way. It’s hard doing it alone, but it’s better than the alternative

My daughter has never met her Dad, he chose not to be involved and I’ve not seen him since I told him I was pregnant x

Was in a similar situation with my eldests dad, he wasn't involved at all.
We ended up in court when my son was 5 , he's now 9 and sees his dad regularly.

I don't think I could do this, well done.

It was court ordered so not exactly a choice. Things are OK now though, my son has a decent relationship with his dad and his 2 younger half brothers.

My daughter is 2. Never seen Dad since I told him I was pregnant. He tried to meet her to discuss arrangements but never shows up. I blocked him for a year. He prolly never will as he has other children he prioritises so Adios ✌🏿

I couldn't cope with him just deciding years later to be part of her life, luckily I think the court would laugh at him. Glad everythings okay now

My daughters “dad” left when I was 26 weeks pregnant (I kicked him out as he’d been cheating on me the whole time) gave him every option to be involved but I never heard from him again. Been on my own since that point and I’m so much happier! Would rather she had no dad than an inconsistent, abusive dad! Never been happier, she’s 13 month and thriving ☺️

My daughter has never met her dad and I don’t think she ever will. But it’s not the same for me as we weren’t in a relationship.

I think he pretends that he doesn’t have a kid, but the child maintenance I get says otherwise! I’m glad though as I would rather he be completely absent than flitting in and out of her life, children don’t deserve that x

yepp mine pretends my child doesn't exist too, although we were together for a little while x

Yep in the same situation, at first I was jealous of seeing all the pregnant couples and couples doing family things together, it took me a while to get over it, sometimes I still think I'd love my son to have that but now I look at him and think I've done that all on my own and I'm proud of myself, he's a beautiful little boy, hitting all his milestones ect, my family live an hour drive away so only see him about once or twice a month. Honestly I wouldn't have it any other way now, I wouldn't want to share him lol. Your doing a great job mama 🩷