Relationship…

I was the same way. 2 months is not much time. It takes time for your body to heal. He has to be patient & you guys have to keep communication open. You are not selfish & he just misses having that deep connection with you.

2 months less than the amount of time it took me to fully heal. I took 10 weeks and I did have an upward tear but it takes you as long as it TAKES and that’s bottom line. Ask him if you’re the only woman he plans on sleeping with for the rest of his life? If he says yes - then ask him what’s the rush?? If he needs nudes then give him some of those. Let him fantasize about you but he will wait or he won’t. Period. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Ninti thank u so much but wen he doesn’t respect that I’m going through depression and so forth … and throws women in my face … it’s spiking up my depression and aneurysm even more

@Kaylee thank u so much that I have people to talk about !!! I haven’t even giving myself enough time to heal .. I feel rushed I’m bleeding here and there still !! I just don’t feel right !!! I had kids before but this pregnancy was hard for me..

My daughter is 3 months and I am dealing with the same thing from her father and it's honestly pushing me away from him it is making me feel like all he wants from me is sex like why can't we talk and spend time together without sex?😔

That sounds like ppd. Have you talked to a doctor about it? Usually mild symptoms go away after a few weeks, but if it's really affecting your life, I would see a doctor. As for your SO, try talking to him and explain the situation, see if you can give a middle ground. Work as a team to try to heal from this. 💙

Just explain that your supposed to wait till your completely healed and explain you aren’t ready. It’s going to be rough and the argument might/will keep going. But don’t give in if you don’t feel like it. Your hormones are all over the place. Once they settle you’ll feel again. Men never understand that birthing is traumatic in many was and that we feel different.

@Jessika throws other women in your face? Like he's threatening to cheat? Coerced consent isn't consent. You can get ptsd from having sex when you don't want to

Wow thanks @Theresa

@Deema thank unteted no go through I think imma let relationship go

My mental health is way more important

Im almost 5 months post partum and have zero interest in anything sexual and i feel i wont for at least a year , any man that doesnt respect this is a piece of shit period

@Jessika did you leave him yet? 😅🙏🏼

Yes mam he didn’t understand wat I was going through so he moved out @Kaylee