Cot height

If your little one is in their big cot, is it still on the highest level? Or have you dropped the height at this point? Not sure when to move it down

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I dropped the height to the middle level last weekend because my daughter now wakes up and sits up in there and I’m sure she’ll soon be pulling herself up using the bars! She was 8 months last week

I am wondering the same. I thought when she can pull herself up, but that might be leaving it too late? 😬 She can't sit up yet, but she is starting to push up on her hands and knees and she did have both hands up on the edge of the cot the other day. I think I'll end up moving it down fairly soon, I'd rather be safe than sorry.

We are on the middle level (may baby) because my son is strong and will start pulling himself up when we least expect it 🤦‍♀️

You should put it lower once they can sit, as pulling up is next step and you don't want them figuring it out the second you turn around to pick up something...

Ours is on the lowest, started at the top at 6 months but the time between her rolling, sitting and pulling up for us was RAPID, so I'd advise being over cautious 😂

On the lowest one and has been for a while as he can stand

On the lowest here too - standing often happens out of no where 😆

We did ours to the middle level and tbh she sleeps better in it now 😂

Mine is dropped all the way as my 8 month old can stand

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