Second pregnancy advice please

Are you guys married?

Look I’m gonna be honest. Don’t listen to anyone but what u feel is right. If you don’t want to go through this pregnancy and u feel that it won’t be a good environment for the baby then don’t go through with it. A child should come into the world in a happy home where everyone should put their 100%. Butttt if u feel like you and ur partner can make it work for the baby’s sake and u are ready to take that responsibility again then go for it. Remember baby’s most of the time do not fix relationships. I’ve never been down that road so I can’t speak on experience but things happen in life and sometimes it’s things we can’t control. Yes it would be nice to give it to a family that needs a child but then u have that in the back of ur head that u have a child somewhere. And I know personally I wouldn’t be able to deal with that. At the end of the day you have to do what’s right for u and ur family and ur state of mind. If you are still early on just think about it and speak with ur partner.

@Corrin you're so right, but imma offer some advice and be transparent speak my truth people be tryna hide real life like no one on this app ain't pregnant now and have had an abortion or two imma speak my truth

A friend of mine told me that she had an abortion and she went in they gave her a shot and prescribed pills and that was it

You can only be but so far along

I never even knew it could be that simple, and thanked her for being a brave soul and sharing that with me as not even a year later I got the shot and pills myself

Wish you all the best if ever you wanna chat judgement free messenge me

this 💯! You are the one person who knows what your own physical and mental health need are and can navigate what is best for YOU!