Hi all sounds completely pathetic but I’m having a hard time getting over the break up from my bd .
He’s been in another relationship since August unbeknownst to me .
I can’t get over the lies , betrayal from him and his family who knew .
Even now he keeps changing his stories and I can’t get over that he’s putting someone else before me and the kids .
I’m also resentful that obviously he’s got enough time to find someone else whilst I’m bringing up our kids and also it seems unfair because when will I ever be able to move on he has our eldest twice a month lol .
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You have a right to feel resentful and upset , he did betray you. I don't understand why a lot of men can't seem to be single, like they have to find someone else before leaving a relationship or trying to even work on the relationship. I had something similar happen to me 12 years ago.
You will get over it , it just takes time and u will find someone it just won't be like his new relationship it won't be the same as u were used to before having kids but u won't be single forever. U just need to take some time to heal.

When did you two break up?
found out he had been cheating about 2 weeks ago