Reading through comments on my previous post and other people’s posts and realising some people on here and VERY judgemental!! People come on this app for advice, no judgement just for “Mam to Mam” genuine advice… so when you have that hand full of people who think they’re doctors/midwives and everything else they’re not qualified to be, it really knocks people who come for genuine advice. Everyone gets judged enough as it is, if you can’t advise without being a bi*ch about it then just don’t bother commenting🤣 people come on here to make friends and stuff not to have back and forth arguments with people who think they know better 🤣
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100% what i have experienced! Not a super helpful app for advice.

I don't think people were being judgemental... I think people were concerned about the risks of preterm labour. If you want advice from genuine health care professionals then speak to your own midwife

Hi Keisha. While I do agree some of the comments on your last post were harsh please do understand people were trying to look out for you and baby. They just probably didn't know how to say it over a text forum without it sounding that way.
I think context is hard to read on here but what I saw was a lot of women concerned for you and your baby who wanted to make sure that you were safe in what you do.
Yes some didn't phrase it well. But I just hope that although their comments hurt you, you understand a lot of that came from a place of genuine concern for you

This is why i have minimal female friends or friends in general coz the guys can be just as bad for being bitchy sometimes 🤣

🤦🏻‍♀️ not all of the comments were bad people just word things incorrectly, I’m not going to force myself into early labour and I’m not gonna do anything to endanger my baby, I think that’s what people don’t understand.. it’s just very annoying when people come with disrespectful comments.