Engaged but want a gf someone I can be with in person and be obsessed with each other but not to the point where her or my fiance gets jealous
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I would think anyone else you’re in a relationship with could be jealous of your other partner unless you’ve had the conversation about everyone being okay in a poly relationship. Have a conversation with your fiancé to see if that’s something he is interested in!

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Yes it’s weird and not loyal.
You’re engaged and it sounds like your fiancé isn’t the right person for you if you still want someone else. I’m married to my wife and we are currently expecting our first IVF child together. I can’t imagine wanting someone else to be “obsessed” with but her.