Wut should I do?
The other day I tried to go into his phone and change his alarm and noticed some things in his notifications that seemed off to me. When I looked he had been commenting on girls in lingerie on X and saying stuff like they looked sexy. When I asked about it he told me that he only did it bc they didn't have confidence and he originally saved them bc he thought their outfits would look good on me and was going to get them for me after I had the baby and recovered from it. I told him they him messaging those kinds of things was not ok and how I felt and he deleted the app and told me he wouldn't do it again. Today I couldn't help but look at his email again and he opened the email notifications for them again and I'm scared to look and see if he replied again so I asked him if he had talked to any of them or looked at their posts and if I can trust him and he said he hasn't. Idk wut I should do now. I'm hurt and angry and want to punched the shit out of him.
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Sounds like he's filling you head full of bull shit I hope ur OK x
I don’t know why you’re asking what you should do when the clear answers just leave him. He’s clearly disrespecting you and trying to gaslight you and to think that he is done nothing wrong. I know it’s gonna be a little hard for you to get up and leave that sorry ass mf
What a pos, didn’t even have the decency to come clean to you when given the chance because he’s clearly lying. Hope you are okay xx
It will be hard bc we started a life together throughout the 7yrs we've been together. We bought a house, have pets, and now a baby. This started apparently at the end of my pregnancy.
girl stop commenting on people’s stuff immediately telling them to leave their man/bd. The answer is NOT always clear there are other things that may factor in her decision. It sounds like this is something she wants to work past not just abandon the situation at whole. If that’s what you would do , great! I’m glad you set that standard for yourself but some of us have other plans in mind
the fact that you are condoning her dumbass decision to work pass him clearly cheating and manipulating his fucking ridiculous like, do you even hear yourself ? If you’re dumb ass wants to stay with your cheating baby daddy, which I read your post on so clearly you do go ahead, but I’m not gonna sit here and control your dumbass decisions. Some of y’all women need to hear the real answer.
trust me I read your post earlier when you were talking about my chest hurt I gave up everything for this man blah blah blah bullshit, bullshit bullshit if you saw her get yo ass up and leave young women just want excuses. I swear to God you probably going to go running back to that man come up on this app and post to get how he hurt your dumb ass when it’s your fault that you let him hurt you AGAIN I’m sorry but I will be fake as fuck if I told you Womens stay with these loser ass man I’m being real with you until you guys like what the fuck yeah I need to do because y’all steady asking oh, what do I do? I don’t know what to do. The answer is right in your face before real.
Yeah, steady putting yourself in the situation and they wonder why you get hurt get the fuck outta here ain’t nobody gonna feel sorry for y’all
hey what that girls saying is just rude. She’s never been in your shoes with a baby. If it was that easy domestic violence shelters and child support wouldn’t be a thing. These support systems were invented because women had a disadvantage in society to be taken advantage of. Lots of women struggle with relationships in their 20s and beyond. Some women were given a solid support system and good advice and guidance from childhood and those that have been should support other women not tell them theyre dumbasses….
Wow he sounds identical to someone I know, he said exactly the same thing and said that he was looking at the pictures and thought that they would look good on me
wut happened after that?
They will basically keep on talking to girls online strange called when you call back the number has been changed. There are many tricks that they do, when you look int the phone you will see more dating apps, dating sites and also as well more girls from different numbers maybe even different countries as well. You need to get rid of this person because the will NEVER EVER stop cheating and you will NEVER have peace of mind
I looked in his computer and his tablet so far while he's at work and both were clear and I'm going to check his phone tonight and go from there depending on wut I find.
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