Am I being crazy

My daughter is on my boyfriend’s phone and I went to help her with it. When I swiped up on the apps there was a instagram profile pulled up. She’s a pretty girl has a lot of followers. I went on her page and he hasn’t liked her stuff since we have been together. This is obvi the girl he looks at when he’s in the bathroom for a long time. So I let it go? Do I say something ? It’s embarrassing enough that I’m 9 months pregnant and do not look like that. I’m feeling so insecure right now. It would help if the girl had the same body type as me but I will probably never look like that… I don’t understand men. Why is he with me if he likes that ?

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Same with my husband. He likes to look at only fans girls and searches stuff so he can watch the videos for free somewhere else. Most of them look like the same, made boobs and ass. I have big boobs too but not made and that makes me feel so insecure because he rather looks at girls like that instead at my pics that i send to him lol also they were a lot of make up and I do not at all. So his Typ is completely the opposite from me. I feel insecure about that a lot.

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All I can tell you, you’re such a beautiful woman even pregnant!! We shouldn’t compare us to people like that because most of them are not natural like we are. Most of them have lip fillers, surgery’s to look like they do. Face filters etc.

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thank you. You’re right. I normally wouldn’t feel this way I think it’s the baby weight and my hormones combined

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Start following sexy hot men too we see who will crack more. But I am petty af. So ignore me!! Seriously though... I remember my 1st bf was an identical twin who was dating my bff. Now my bff and I are totally opposites physically. She's extremely light skin, much shorter, wears makeup and bigger and extremely beautiful. One day I had a convo with her bf who commented how he prefers girls who are tall, dark skin ,slim and natural like myself. But I asked him well why didn't you go for that then. He said he tried and lost to his twin lol 😂 but that men are not fussy .. that so long as he finds his perfect match he will choose her regardless the physical.So I say this just to let you know that I would hope the men in question chose you because they love you regardless how you look physically. However their behaviours are hurtful to y'all and means y'all should address them. It depends I guess on your thoughts and feelings on their behaviour. It's like the men who blatantly and shamelessly break their necks

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To look at other women. Disgusting 🤢 hurtful behaviour to most women. But everyone looks and notices other attractive people to them so the issue then becomes since it bothers you does he need to stop completely looking or does he need to be more respectful and savvy with it???? It depends on you and what you'll accept and tolerate. Am sorry they are making y'all feel so down. You're all gorgeous women xx

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