when courting do allow over night stays? what are your views?

Courting? As in like the old school Amish stuff…?

courting as in dating to marrage?

I have only heard that term in old religion my bad 🤣

Are you asking when you are dating when do you start sleeping together or going to each others place over night?

yes

I think it depends. I’ve been on dates, we ended up connecting or we’re having a good time or had a fun plan back at each others place and it ended in sleeping together or staying over. I think it’s good to hold out if you’re aiming to date that person seriously, but I’ve never had one rule…it just depends on the situation,

For me it’s been a case of depends on how the date goes. I’ve had several dates where I have made them take me home (alone) and only a couple dates where we have spent the night together afterwards. It has depended on the connections for me. This relationship I’m currently in (my fiancé of almost 3 years) we spent the first date/night together and 4/5 months later proposed to me. I’ve also had a date where he made me so extremely uncomfortable that even thogg if he he could drive I got my dad to pick me up from my date. So I really do think it depends on that. It also depends on yourself/the other person if you don’t want too then that’s completely fine too. Don’t make yourself uncomfortable to make the other person comfortable or happy ☺️