So real quick...I just got an interesting phone call from an old guy friend of mine who I probably haven't talked to in years....I just found out my boyfriend called him and asked who he was and If I was cheating on him with this guy.....my boyfriend said he was with me and making sure I wasn't cheating.
Back story- my boyfriend and I been going through it lately and he has said things like I'm a mistake and then will come around and apologize.
Does this mean he is insecure or does it mean he actually cares about me more than he leads on? Or is this just a way for him to have an excuse to leave me. We have a 7month old together btw.
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He sounds like a Narc and or that he cheated on you and is just putting his actions into you

I forgot the word for it I think it starts with a p or something either way don’t waste your young life on him you deserve better!!!!

the word is psycho girl 😩😂 because why would he reach out to someone on your phone that’s wild to me . He’s probably cheating and maybe putting the blame on you ? Do you ever go through his phone or does he ever act weird with you?

psycho is a great one but thanks to you I remember it now. He is projecting his insecurities and fault onto you!!!!

Insecure af … your bd
You’re not crazy that behavior is odd and far from endearing

That just is way to fishy to me

It sounds like he’s projecting what he is doing onto you

Wonder if he's called all the guys on your phone because why reach out to one you've not spoken to in years? I'd personally be furious about the intrusion into my privacy. Not OK.