it’s not really drama just advice ish

so me and my partner have been together nearly 2 years with a 4 month old daughter and i stay at home with her everyday, while he works, he’s in the military. every year he goes away to cyprus for a few months, the last 2 years have been 3/4 months but this year its 6 from end of march to october(he misses her first birthday unless we fly out for it) currently he has been banned from driving for 18 months and has been living back on his base because he can’t get too and from work if living home with me, i’ve been finding it so hard doing day and night all by myself especially as she’s going through 4 month sleep regression, as he only comes home on weekends so i feel like i am really going to struggle within the 6 months of him being away. bear in mind we are able to fly out a few times to see him and he gets 2 weeks off august as we have a wedding in germany but i was just wondering if anyone else is in a same situation or has gone from having someone there all the time to not at all that can give me advice? is harder this time 1 because it’s longer and 2 because the first 2 years of him going i didn’t have a baby (was pregnant last year but had a very easy pregnancy so was still doing everything i could).

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Advice please

I am in a longterm relationship with a drug addict, he takes K daily to help his anxiety.. apparently.. he doesn’t go over the top and get absolutely out of it, but it is a worry. He owes me £6000, he is in major debt.
We have a 2 year old together and I have been thinking of leaving for a long time, i don’t know why i can’t make the move. The house is in my name, we will not be homeless because he would leave.
I just always hope he would quit, but I just don’t see it happening.
I also worry that his dad will want to see him and be doing drugs or drinking, i know we can have someone there to watch him but i don’t trust his family to watch him as they would let him get away with it 😔
I feel so stuck.

Is it cheating?

Husband hasn't been able to have sex with me or cuddle in almost a year. No hello/goodbye kiss. Basically no contact order ig. Today I find hes been following and frequently visiting a sexual FB page and its purely sex content. There were other searches as well. Atp we are married (2 years and 4 years together) we have two kids 3 and 2. He claimed in the past he was ashamed of jerking off and would stop and blah blah.

Once your child was potty trained did they regress back to having accidents?

Just wanting to find out how common this is....

4yo reading and writing level

Advice and question… My 4yo, turning 5 in June can sing her ABC’s, trace most letters(but not write on her own) and identify several letters(but not all). I’ve been working with her to learn sounds and write letters but I’m afraid, is she falling behind?

Would love any recommendations of products/programs to do as she starts
Kindergarten next year.

Food

What's everyone feeding their 8/9 month olds? I need some new ideas 🤔

relationship

I have been with my partner since we were both 18 and now we are both 30.

We have a 2.5 year old, a dog and I’m 31 weeks pregnant with our second.

I still have worked up until this point, I have one more shift left (extremely stressful because they haven’t bothered doing a risk assessment which I am aware is illegal)

I still look after my toddler and dog everyday including meals, dog walks, activities etc

I still do all the washing, ironing, hoovering, watering plants, gardening, changing beddings, mopping, dishes etc including washing and ironing all his clothes.

The other day I was in pain and I didn’t walk the dog so he commented on the fact I hadn’t, tonight he came in from work I’ve looked after my toddler all day whose had very bad diarrhoea as he’s currently poorly, everything was done from hoovering, mopping etc however I’d left 3 dishes in the sink and he had a nerve to comment.

Am I being unreasonable to be pissed off with that? I told him wait until we have another then you’ll know what mess is plus I have changed my toddlers bedding, hoovered, mopped the whole house, toys are put away and apart from a bit of washing and 3 dishes in the sink there’s barely anything I feel I’ve done bloody well considering but of course he’s going to pick out what I haven’t done.