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Intimacy & Relationships

Relationship is dead.

Hi everyone. I’m really struggling with my partner. We have been together 4 years we have a 15 month old daughter and I’m also 32 weeks pregnant with our second daughter. We have had problems throughout the whole relationship that we have overcame (to an extent) he’s cheated on me while pregnant with our 15 month old , he was an alcoholic and drug user but now clean, in the past he had several charges that caught up with him after time resulting in him being jailed last year when our daughter was 7 weeks old. I’ve managed to get by these very hard points in the relationship even with having complex ptsd (caused by childhood) But for some reason now I just can’t deal with it anymore he’s beyond lazy won’t do me a single favour. Like this morning I said I always get up with our daughter today I’m sore and tired I need a little extra time to chill out. He got out of bed marched around the house in a huff took our daughter to the living room and fell asleep on the couch leaving our kitchen door open and toilet door open so when I got up I was greeted by my daughter having poured juice on the carpets and shampoo on the couch aswell as her standing up at the window on the couch WHILE HE HAD WENT BACK TO SLEEP. I’ve asked him multiple times recently to leave and find somewhere to stay and he refuses because he wants us to be a family but I don’t have the will power for it anymore. Any advice on what I could or should do ? Rant over 😂