Ex girlfriend
So boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We started dating when I was 5 months pregnant, we talked for awhile because I was scared. My son “father” abused me while pregnant and has nothing to do with my child. When my boyfriend and I FIRST started talking, he was still talking to his ex and sleeping with her, this was the very beginning, before we really became serious.
She is OBSESSED with him. It’s been almost a year and she STILL tries to make shit up. When I was recovering from having my son she sent me very old messages between them from the very beginning and made it seem like it just happened. She’s been blocked on everything on mine and his. He had to change his number. She was on his phone plan, he changed his password to the account but she still managed to get in and get his number and text him. She ruined my birthday. She memorized his email and emailed him asking him if they could go to dinner.
Just recently, she made a fake Facebook, to send me text messages claiming they were from my boyfriend. I texted the number WITH my boyfriend’s phone in my hand and the said person replied. So obviously it wasn’t my boyfriend. She is doing everything she possibly can to ruin our relationship because she “still loves him”.
It is starting to affect my son because I get hurt every single time it happens and it takes me away from my baby.
Wtf do I do? I literally can not live my life in constant fear that she is going to keep trying to ruin us. She is literally crazy and goes to all ends just to make shit up. My boyfriend rarely shows emotions and he sat in my car last night and BAWLED because she is ruining his life and he’s scared to lose me and my son.
I told my boyfriend I couldn’t do it anymore and I need time to myself because it’s really starting to destroy me. I want to be with him, but I don’t want to live like this. 😔
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He should get a restraining order that includes any sort of contacting via social media. Or something like that.
I agree with what amber said. You can also get one if you feel the need too. And if it is affecting your son, it’s for the best.
I agree, that and deleting his email and creating a new one and switching it over, idk if he created a new one of the phone plan where it’s just himself, he needs to do that if he hasn’t and make the password extra difficult, BUT put the new email in his new phone plan, he’s gonna have to change absolutely everything to get her away it seems
File harassment charges
she refuses to give the phone back that he paid for to turn it in. Even tho she get her own plan and new phone and number she refuses to give it to him. He doesn’t have the money to pay off both phones and switch plans. He reported the phone as stolen.
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