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How long did it take you to get your period after giving birth? And are you on any birth control? I’m wondering when I’ll get my period if I’m breastfeeding.

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Could come whenever, could be gone until you stop breastfeeding.

I'm 3 months postpartum and haven't had my cycle return. Hoping it holds of the rest of the year lol

It took 2 months for me I’m also not on birth control

Hey girl! I’m a November 2022 mom and I’ve been breastfeeding for 14 months now and still didn’t get my period!😍😍😍 so the reality is that it impacts people differently. But basically it’s normal not to have your period the entire time you’re breastfeeding 😍 What a perk!! Plus this is caused by your prolactin levels being high which lowers estrogen and testosterone. All of this also gives you the benefit of decreasing your chances of having breast cancer or ovarian cancer later in life. Another perk of BF!❤️💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 I’m DEFINITELY not missing my periods 😂😂

I got mine at 3 months pp and I’m EBF. Not on BC.. we barely have time to do it! 😭

Breastfeeding and on the mini pill 3 months pp, still no period!

I’m EBF and I got mine 10 weeks PP ☺️ I have the copper IUD.

Mine came back a month after I stopped feeding (fed for a year) and I wasn’t on birth control

Hello! I’m EBF, I think I got my period once and haven’t gotten it since. Not on birth control either

I don't breastfeed but I been on the depo for 7 yrs total since after I had my first child and just got it after I had my 3rd baby 3 months ago and have never gotten my period while on it.

I got an IUD at 6 weeks and my period came 🙃🙃 I’m EBF

Breastfeeding, not on birth control, I got my period at 9 weeks but my doctor told me that I could be irregular the next months due to Breastfeeding.

were you exclusively breastfeeding?

Didn’t get a period for 1.5 years with my first, been nursing 3.5mo with my second and no period yet

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