Teething?

My baby has had teething symptoms for weeks! I noticed this week that it looks like his little teeth are finally coming up! How long from seeing them under the gums do they usually start to cut?

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I wouldnt know as mine has been like that for a month and has got white ridged line across front of gums and has now at 7 months looks like the gums are thinner and can see more white when she chews down and there are ridges on the top of her gums, so not sure how long they should take to come through, but seems to be weeks or months x

bloody heck so we could be waiting a while here! X

My sons are the same, hoping it doesn’t take months for them to come through 🙈🙈

right!

okay! So maybe a few weeks! I’m hoping they come soon cause the little buggar keeps using my nipple as a teether and omg it hurts 🤣

that’s a good idea! I’ll have a look for one when I’m out today!

I know, he keeps biting my nipple, pulling allllll the way back with it and smiling me. He thinks it’s hilarious! Xx

any sign of teeth erupting? My son is still teething and no sign 🙈

Oh they’re so close! My son has been crying all morning so I think his are on the move. Poor little things!

same! I have that ashtons teething gel thing - and I tried it on my hand and it has like a tingly effect and my baby loves it on his gums

can you put formula milk in freezer?

honestly, I’ve never looked into it properly. It was one of my friends who suggested it, as she’s been doing it with her little one - I’ve been doing it with my little one since and haven’t had any problems. I have heard people putting cooled down water in it too, but haven’t tried it myself. Hope that helps :)

Update! He’s just cut one of the teeth 😭 I’m sobbing like a baby 🤣 but 3 weeks it was from noticing to cutting the tooth!

thank you so much 🤗

The molars have taken about 4 months for my little girl!! 😩

god help me when they come up!

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I don’t know if I want advice or just to get it out a bit.
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Very long story short, me and my partner turn 30 this year and were thinking of taking a short trip (2-3 days max) just the two of us to celebrate. Our son will be 2 by then.
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