thoughts/advice?
i’ve started talking to a new guy we’ve flirted here and there but nothing serious. i’m kinda nervous it would be my first date since separating from bd but what makes me more nervous is he’s already talking abt kids. i’m not sure how to react to that …
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Ignore it lol. Men get so carried away when they like someone especially when it’s new! Just have fun 🤩
thank you for the reassurance just super nervous about moving on finally
It's still early days . Take ur time to get to know him properly. Don't rush it
Just tell him to slow it down and don't make anything exclusive till at least 3 months
Watch his reaction to that avoid lovebombs
this is how people end up with 6 kids, multiple baby daddies and single
It’s okay to take a step back haha
all this that you’ve said = taking things slow. That’s just all we’re advising her.
People love bomb a lot so that’s just why people usually “take things slow” it’s not about disrupting ‘natural flow’ of things because a lot of times it’s not natural to want to have kids with someone you just started talking to lol
This is how it was with me and my kids dad, I tease him now like look you was saying you was gonna put babies in me xyz and he’s like i was just talking 😂🤦🏻♀️ but we have two under two now lol
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