Pregnant married not even a yr and getting a divorce
Hi guys I’m dealing with a lot of hurt right now.. I recently got married in Nov of last yr and now getting a divorce I found out I was pregnant in Aug and turned around and miscarried in October I was pregnant with twins .. throughout all this I’ve been on a emotional breakdown b/w arguments w my husband , it’s gotten so bad my anger is out of control with him it’s like he takes me back to the person I worked so hard on not to be again.. recently the arguments gotten so bad he said he wants to be separated ( divorce ) I’m so angry bc I’ve moved out of my house with my other three kids to live w him and I no longer have what’s needed to start over he wants me to move out and now that I’m working less of hours he still wants me out , what hurts the most is how much I’ve sacrificed I gave up my home moved my kids from there own comfort zone. We don’t have sex anymore he literally doesn’t want to be around me anymore it’s such a shame I’ve put myself here in this position I really thought he was the one .. I’m more hurt bc he doesn’t want to do therapy he said I need it not him 🥺🥺🥺🥺 I feel so destroyed and to carry this child I no longer want anymore I not about to be caring for four kids alone I want to sit her up for adoption he doesn’t deserve to receive this blessing from me .
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Hi ♥️ I’m very sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It can’t be easy. I’m not sure how to help but to remind you of the strength you have within. Women have great resilience but sometimes we forget because we get so caught up in the emotions. I’m here if you want to talk. You can DM me
I’m so sorry your going through this babes;😩😢
Thanks my sistas I’m really all over the place we live together and we don’t speak to one or another at all. I hate this 🥺 I worked so hard to not ever allow a man bring me back to this type of place again I let myself down and my kids.. and now about to have another one for him and I really don’t want her I wanna adopt her emotionally I’m really broken 😞 I don’t even care about this pregnancy anymore
honey first and foremost until you’ve experienced this type of pain don’t talk shit to me about what you dislike. I can care less about what you have to say your thoughts on how I feel and what I’m going through doesn’t make me change anything about my feelings
I'm adopted and this was my mothers reason for giving me up as well. But my mom was young and also didn't have the funds. Do you feel like you can't give this child a good life or and you just said that she might not have a father figure she deserves ?
why are you judging her she's going through a lot her emotions are high the best we can do is to give her options on how she can get through this .
but she doesn't hate her child I think she's just fearful of her child getting a broken home and feels someone else maybe be able to provide better
But just because a child doesn't have a father or the family you wanted I don't think that should be your only reason for wanting to do adoption. There's plenty of people who don't have a 2 parent household who are happy with their up bringing
yeah I never said I hated my child , thing is I already told him from the beginning if he wasn’t gonna be a family I didn’t want anymore kids ofc that’s when we married and got pregnant and now it’s like he’s running from everything he knows my situation prior to have other children I’m doing for alone .. but I say adoption out of fear of already struggling with three my beliefs is against abortion but I’m not worried about what someone else assumptions are like I said I never said I hate my own child .
I understand ❤️you got this momma your strong sometimes I wonder how my life would be if I would’ve stayed with my mother it broke me being seperated from siblings .
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