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Baby Daddy Drama

What do I do??

My son’s dad, whom idk if we’re together or not today but either way I don’t want to be with him. He keeps eyes open for other women in person, he stalks them on social media. All this stalking consumes all the dudes time. Or his game he plays. He doesn’t care about interacting or being there for his son. I will say he was a good dad for about the 1st year of my son’s life but that’s it! It’s like he lost the desire to even be a dad because everything else consumes him. By his choice! Which I keep bitching about but it don’t get me anywhere! I get furious and angry and he says he will change but he never does. I been with the guy 3 years and it’s still the same shit. How do I know what he does? I looked. I said okay let’s show each other one another’s phone so I went thru his. Found out he checks up on multiple women. When I said something about it and said WHY? He says well I’m bored. Ladies, I have tried talking to this dude a lot I’ve tried keeping him from not being bored but the mfer is bored with me. Clearly. He didn’t finish the sentence because I’ve done all I can do. It’s not my fault he cares and wonders what people are doing. He doesn’t have time for his family so I’m not sure how he’s going to have time to maintain all this stuff with multiple people. Oh and hes obsessed with this girl at work too. Constantly searching her, she’s even his #1 person he searches. All you gotta do is look. Oh yeah he also ruined my name at his job so I’m not even welcomed there. Why am I a bitch? I’m a bitch to the guy because he doesn’t keep his word and does does and does for everyone else but can’t do the shit I suggest. He doesn’t have any energy to do anything after work so now here I am trying to do things on my own with my child however I’m broke, he’s broke we are broke. I’m not even sure what to do sometimes