Am I overreacting?
Need your advice girls haven’t got many friends to confide in- tonight my boyfriend called me another women’s name in fact it was 2 times- the woman works were he does he’s got lifts off her in the past and mentions her name a lot in the past I’ve questioned is there something going on he’s always denied but calling me her name has come out of the blue she hasn’t been mentioned over the weekend so I’m pretty shocked that he’s done it it’s actually really hurt me we’ve got other issues but this has made me want to fully end things I said to him imagine if it was the other way around I know he wouldn’t like it
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That would make me mad
where not stupid we get a gut feeling and if your gut feelings telling uou something is going on it more than likely is i'd tell him how you feel tell him he has one chance to tell you the whole truth it is abit bizarre and i definitely wouldn't be happy or sit around and do nothing if that was my partner fair enough if it's a one off a mistake but it's happened more than once she gives him lifts he's always talking about her that to me dosnt just sound like a mistake really hope you can get to the bottom of it 💖
Are your names similar? Xx
girl same! Xx
no completley different x
I wouldn’t be happy babe. She on his mind I he keeps repeating her name. I’d ask her love. You will know by the tone etc especially if she not expecting you to ask her outright xx
Definitely a sackable offence- 100% not overrated with that one. I totally understand how you dont believe him as well I think clearly twice is ridiculous and there’s absolutely no excuse to why her name should be coming out of his mouth at home. If it was the other way round and use aren’t on at your best it’s so easy for it to slip into disrespect. I’d say hold your own give him another chance and if anything happens again I’d think about ending it so much easier said than done especially if your in a position of having a baby or pregnancy or anything like that with extended emotional ties to him.
Hope it’s a misunderstanding but just put yourself first and know your worth and trust your gut !! Xxx
*overreacted
I’d understand it with a recent ex (it’s only natural) but with a random coworker? No chance!!
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