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I wanted to get a Christian perspective on this I’m a new Christian and still navigating things. What does the bible say about being unfaithful.? My partner has done sneaky things like talking to his ex on multiple occasions including when I was a few months post partum.
I’ve been asking God for a sign to whether I’m doing the right thing by staying but like I said I’m new to Christianity so I’m still in the dark.
I try and forgive and move on but it hurts like it’s still fresh every time I think about it. Especially since his ex is now pregnant and I feel robbed of that post partum bliss. I’ll be honest I dislike the girl because she knew he was in a relationship but how can I be angry at someone who had no loyalties to me.
I went of on a tangent but context is important😭 i find it hard to know what to pray for to fix these feelings and again idk what the bible says about men being unfaithful so any guidance would be appreciated. Thanks
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Learn more about our guidelines.@Bethany thanks so much, I’m going to have a look at the blog
If you are married, adultery gives ground for divorce. But God can restore your marriage if that’s His will and both people are willing to work on it. If you are NOT married, then I would ask God if this relationship is His will and worth fighting for to get into marriage. I would take a break and heal and see where God is leading you. From what you’re saying, it doesn’t sound like God called you in this relationship.
Something that took a while for me to learn is to listen to what your body is trying to tell you. As a christ follower, you should have the Holy Spirit adjoined to you...and it will wrestle within you when something isn't right. If you are around someone and their words say one thing, but actions say another...believe their actions...if you're around someone and their words and actions seem to align, but you/your body just never feel good around them...the Spirit may be telling you to watch out for them. This is something I've been discussing with hubs, God/Jesus, our kids, and reading scriptures on...and reels...its like this wave of discernment is washing over...so & so says "friend" but really they are using us in the center of their superiority complex. So the encouraging check in texts are fake. Then on the phone and in person, the person finds covert ways to put us down. There's ppl that argue your boundaries like they're the exception to the rule.
People who make something be your own fault when you try to tell them their behavior hurt your feelings. Ppl who give fake apologies like, I'm sorry YOU FEEL that way. Instead of, I'm sorry I MADE YOU feel like that. I'd watch some of these reels and see if you can identity unhealthy traits in people and see what you're willing to settle for ...
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2aH1AxRC0X/?igsh=MXNsa3pmazZ3M2liZQ==
First of all, I’m praying for you! This is such a tough situation & I know God feels your pain and loves you as His child, no matter what happens next.
I really like what @🌻Desy🌻 said, that as a Christ follower the Holy Spirit dwells in you. The moment you accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, the Spirit came to dwell in you. Your body is now the temple of God!
”Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.“
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/1co.6.18-20.NIV
God designed sex. It makes us “one flesh” w/another. That’s why He created marriage to keep sex within a covenant relationship b/w only 2 ppl. (Matthew 19:6.) Prayers for Him to lead you on what to do next!
Ladies giving some great advice here. Like the question Wis asked, Do you believe God joined the two of you and you are meant for each other? If you do, it's worth fighting for, going to battle in prayer." Let no man separate what God has put together" Ask God to reveal to you if he has been unfaithful. God will reveal his will for you the more time you spend in prayer, scripture and seeking God. The discernment from the Holy spirit is what you need. So pray for that. Ask God to reveal to you if this is your kingdom marriage. But to answer your question, for a Christian married couple, unfaithfulness is not allowed and gives you a legal reason to divorce. Scripture says if we lust after someone, we've committed adultery in our heart. God takes this very seriously. It's not okay but we're all sinners, and God can bring us to restoration through Christ if both people are willing and have a repentant heart.
@Laura thank you 🙏