No new friends

The world is strange. Or maybe it's just me. I have a really hard time making friends....other then men usually. But that always gets weird and I don't like really having sex anymore and I'm not looking for a relationship. It's hard to make friends because everybody drinks or smokes weed or likes to be social..like go to bars and party. And I don't really like small children...I get annoyed real fast. My children are grown....and I don't really want to deal with that..sorry. I don't drink, because I am a recovering alcoholic. I don't smoke weed because I can't stand the smell and how it makes me feel. And I'm an introvert...I don't socialize. I never feel like I fit in anywhere. Everyone keeps saying I'll find "my tribe".... whatever that means. Every now and then I find a few girls that I think are my friends, but when I ask them to do things like, let go ride quads, let's go to the gun range....what kind of video games are you into. They always seem hesitant or fake. I hate that. I don't do fake smiles and bullshit. I'm a tom-boy at heart. But I can girly it up if needed....I just hate it. I'm not pretty or concerned about my body image. I'm not looking for prince charming. I just want to enjoy my life. I'm 43 years old. My children are grown, I live alone. I work full-time and I'm working towards my Master's. So I don't have a lot of free time. But I can make some...I just have to plan. I wouldn't say I'm lonely...just bored. Bored with being drunk, bored with getting high, bored with sex. I feels like I have no one I can relate to.
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I can definitely relate!

@Collette ....see...everybody says that. But then when it's time to go or play. I find out they are full of shit. Not saying you are. I just here this a lot. And you're about to have a baby. Also like many women I know.

I can relate completely !!!

You sound like me girl (except I smoke weed) you have to admit it effects everyone differently I use it for my pain and anxiety I am to a recovering alcoholic/addict ( however you wanna call it ) I DESPISE FAKE PEOPLE AND CAN SEE RIGHT THRU THEM EVER SINCE I STOPPED drinking and doing other drugs 8 years and some change...I am looking for land up in Maine to shoot guns and go quading I call it 4 wheeling lol and snow mobiling lol I'm a tom boy at heart my dad is my best friend I have a 16 YR old son who was my mini me but now as a teenager doesn't want to be near me 🤧🥹 I can relate to him cuz I was the same EXACT WAY LOL...so I except it..there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU AT ALL GIRL...AND DONT YOU PUT YOURSELF DOWN OR THINK NEGATIVELY ABOUT YOURSELF..YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND YOUR A REAL ASS WOMAN AND OUR TYPES ARE FRIGGIN HARD TO COME BY SO I WAS PLEASED TO READ YOUR COMMENT THANK YOU!!!!! I have a sister who use to be my best friend, she drinks a lot but is a "functioning alcoholic" lol she lies soo much

She forgets her own lies it's disgusting and lies to her kids that's one thing I havent ever done was lie to my son no matter how harsh shit was or is j tell him the truth so he knows what kind of world he is dealing with and he saw me battle with drinking and he is soo against It I thank the lord something positive came out of a negative situation....you can message me anytime if you ever want to or need to talk to someone that's a straight shooter from the mouth and a gun ahahahaa

Oh and by the way YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL OUTSIDE AND IN I SAW YOUR PIC WHAT ARE U TALKING ABOUT NOT PRETTY PLEASE GIRL...COME ON

I hope you find a friend or two

This is how I feel f___k everyone that's a fake f___k ahababab HAPPY SUNDAY

@Jennifer aka JDubs ...yup....just like that....lol

Ahaha Jennefer idk u for that long, gotta say this here is a hug for you sweetie and I love ya u always put a smile on face and I'm glad I found someone I can relate to also I'm irradiating to your message as well xoxoxox

Not just you ! I feel the same. We moved from NY to TX and can’t find friends

Well hello I live near BOSTON, MA representing Waltham, MA....LOL but I welcome honest, nice, smart, funny, REAL PEOPLE that are not afraid to express their real selves...not like I call FF'S use your imaginations ahaah I THINK JENNEFER WILL GET IT!! LOL. HOW ARE YOU TONIGHT JENNEFER???

We could be twins I truly wish you lived closer I'm 53 and I'm a CNA my kids are grown my best friends a cat and I'm over mens bullshizz I don't smoke ,I drink occasionally , I don't want much just to live in Peace .

@Rebecca ....I like men. I actually prefer to hang out with men versus women. I just don't want a relationship right now because my BF of 9 years just past in November. It's too soon. Women can be really fake. And I like to do guy type stuff. I'm also a comic book geek. I like cats ..but I prefer dogs. Honestly I think I just miss hanging out with my kids. They get me. Only problem is my kids aren't really outdoorsy types. And like that stuff. I miss doing those things with my BF. :(.

Aaww Jennefer,. I can totally relate to you missing your boyfriend and doing things with him...it's been 7yrs holy s__t and I miss mine everyday and night..your loss is still soo fresh Hun I'm soo sorry for your loss..and I just watched the movie " just one of the guys " lol it reminded me of you...hope you have a great day hun ..I'm here if u wanna talk about anything we are two Jens in this world with same interests and same kind of losses ,🥺. Hope and pray you will be ok....

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