My baby’s daddy cheated on his new gf with me
So me and my ex was with each other for 3 years I broke up with him so for 7 months now we haven’t been together he tried to get back with me the whole time. He got with his new gf 2 months ago and we got to talking again as baby boy should be here anytime soon. I had told him that if he wasn’t with his new gf I would get back with him. So yesterday he actually messaged me if I meant it and he came over for the night meaning he cheated on his gf.
I thought he was fine but he wanted to speak to me today after work so he came over and said that he feels really guilty as his gf has done nothing wrong I understand and left it at that. He says he hasn’t got a excuse to break up with her until baby is born and he’s going to try be at mine ‘for baby’ and hopefully she gets annoyed and he then has a excuse.
I dunno how to feel about all of this as he said he loves her but they only been together a month and me and him were together for 3 years anf we have a baby on the way!!!!
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I'd tell him straight... either he is honest and leaves her or he stays with her and that closes the door on him ever being with you again. He has a chnace here to be a family. If he really wanted to be with you then he would end it with her instead of trying to play silly games to find an 'excuse' to break up. Its not fair on you or the other girl Xx
it is my fault aswell I know I should of said something before he got with someone and both of our family’s have different opinions but ngl yes I’m 9 months pregnant but I’m a bit scared to know the answer incase he picks her and the gf seems nice
The best thing to do is talk to him, you don't want to be stressed over this situation when you're in labour, you need to know where you stand, sounds like he just wants the best of both worlds xx
no he was the one that said he felt guilty and regretted cheating because he never wanted to cheat on anyone regardless of the person he was legit in tears. And he didn’t even want to kiss me til he either broke it off with her or wanted to know where his head was which I respect but like howay he is currently at hers playing loving boyfriend while I’m sitting over thinking everything xx
😢 you need to know where you stand asap. It's not fair for you to be feeling like this when your due anyday. You have enough on your mind without all this. I hope you get ut sorted soon 🤞 xxx
I don’t know how to say it nicely and how to word it to him we been through so much and after yesterday I just feel upset coz he was all over me now he just feels guilty and regrets cheating
Just be honest and tell him how you feel, I'm sure he would want the chance of being a family. If his gf found out then I doubt she would want to stay with him anyway he has already risked his future with her, he's staying in a relationship based on a lie now that he has cheated 😢 xx
he said he wanted to see how things went with her it hurt like but I have to get over it
😢💔 I'm so sorry, at least now you know where you stand and you can focus on yourself and baby ❤️ xxx
doesn’t matter he broke up with her
Oh wow! So are you going to give it a go with him 🤞❤️ xxx
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