What would you do if you found out your partner of 9 years was on tinder?
So I’ve recently found out that my partner was/still is on tinder and has been adding girls who his matched with on Snapchat.. what would you do?
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Leave. If this is how he treats you after 9 years, yea fuck him. He’s a cheating scumbag. Don’t fall for the sunken cost fallacy! Better you found out now rather than in 20 years time, silver lining and all that!
Honestly there's literally no good excuse/reason for this to be happening besides cheating and I think you know that. 9 years together or not can you really spend another 9 not knowing if he's still doing it through other methods if you approach him? If my partner cheated on me (been together 7 years) this late in our relationship I'd drop him on the spot, if he's not fully devoted to me after that length of time the chances of it happening again and me not knowing are ones I'm not comfortable with x
Leave. There isn’t a possible alternative explanation so I wouldn’t be interested in even listening to a pathetic excuse.
pack his bags and show him the door goodbye 👋🏻
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