Miscarriage

Today (8&4) we went to the OBGYN and they told me we lost our little one. Has anyone else here dealt with this and how did you cope? I’m not sure what to think and trying to look on the bright side but we are devastated. I had an ultrasound at 6&4 and saw the heartbeat and baby but today they said it looked like cysts in my uterus. Can anyone give me a clue to what happened if possible? I’m feeling lost.

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I'm so sorry 🫂❤️ I know how painful it can be I've been through it myself. The first few weeks I just needed to rest, I tried to distract myself with my favorite movies and shows and sleep a lot to get away from everything. Give yourself all the self care you can even though it can be difficult. Try to eat your favorite foods and feel good snacks as it can be hard to eat when grieving. Just be easy on yourself and know that none of this is your fault even though sometimes it can feel like our body has failed us.

Goodmorning, I am currently losing an early pregnancy and I lost my twins at 12 weeks. I grieved by doing what I could to honor my babies I painted somthing for them and purchased a small grave stone with their names. John and Elijah. I'm so sorry you have to experience this

You might never have a reason and it’s awful ❤️

I experienced a loss with my first pregnancy at 7 weeks. For me it was getting out for a walk while listening to my favorite music that helped me a lot through it all. I’m not sure if you’re a person of faith or not but I also tried to think of how absolutely wonderful the place was where my baby went in comparison to the heartache we struggle with here.

Thank you all. I have decided to get a second opinion because I have a feeling they could be wrong, and I’ll go from there

I am so sorry for your loss Becky ❤️ please reach out if i can give any support. This is tragic

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32 weeks

32 week growth scan and clinic appointment. Did anything unusual happen? Ive heard a few people saying 32 weeks was when they had a induction date

Hey what are your current symptoms?

I’m 37+5

I’m pretty mobile still but anything over a hour or 2 and I’m in discomfort

Getting up from a sitting position is hard

Some of baby’s movements now are bordering on painful especially around my crotch/pelvis

I’m exhausted very easily and nap every single day

Can basically only breathe out my mouth now and I’m snoring and dribbling 😂

Standing in one leg is very painful 😂

Some waves of pain/ tightening but I regular and mild

Low period type aches

And I feel like a fire breathing dragon with this acid reflux

My nose is growing 😂

My fingers swell slightly and go numbs in my sleep so that and constant toilet breaks keep me up ( checked swelling with MW and consultant and all normal, not a worry)

I also do not want to be social in person like I’d rather everyone just be my penpal atm lol

What are your symptoms?