Curious tell me your l&d experience

I went into the hospital at 37 weeks due to some bleeding after sex. Was told I has gestational hypertension. Started being induced at 1130 pm on Monday the 5th and finally went in for a emergent c-section at 12 am on Thursday the 7th. The mid wife and nurses were not listening to me when I kept telling them something was wrong until they finally went to check me and realized my body was trying to push her out at 5 cm and her head was stuck in my cervix.

Some of my l&d nurses were great, also helped that I knew a few of them from being around the hospital from when I worked on the ambulance. My pp nurses were great.

Went in to be induced at 39 weeks they broke my water at 8:30am started pushing at 12:00pm and she was out at 12:18pm 7 pounds 9 ounces and I had a lot of stitches.

Had a membrane sweep at 39 weeks and my water broke the following morning at 11am. Got to the hospital at 2:30pm and they checked me at 5:00 and I was 4cm. I asked for the epidural at 5:30pm. They were busy so I didn’t get the epidural until 7:00pm. I spent that 1.5 hours with extreme back labor. After getting the epidural I felt NOTHING. They didn’t check my cervix again until midnight and I was fully dilated and ready to push. I developed a fever and high blood pressure and babies heart rate was high. I pushed for an hour and she was born at 2:07am. I think the infection could have been avoided if they checked my cervix sooner. Who knows how long I was fully dilated and just laying there because I felt nothing due to the epidural.

I went in for induction at 39 weeks and had previously been in labor for 6 weeks but no water break yet. The 18th I went in at 8pm and was trying everything to become open they gave me two doses of cytotech and it opened me but his head was too big so the 19th they started me on pitocin and had me on it for 16 hours and my hand swole up like Mickey Mouse’s. The 20th I got woken up to the on call dr telling me I wasn’t going anywhere and was having my son today. I had a panic attack and hyperventilated during him checking my cervix and my sister demanded he leave and my ob be brought in. My oh came in and explained I was open but my son’s head was far too big to birth vaginally. I agreed to do a c section as long as I had minimal scaring at 10:50 I went into surgery at 11:39 and my son was born at 11:59. They had to clean out my cervix because he decided to poop in me. My blood pressure had dropped to 70/50 as soon as they cut me and had to give me 60ccs of blood. I would do for him❤️

yes I agree infection could’ve been avoided my l&d nurses checked me every 30 minutes or so unless I called bc I felt pressure