So I found these on my parters Ipad (not snooping) my daughter left a page open whilst playing on it. All these messages & other naked photos were after we got together....also eharmomy join up from this January. π€π€π€
So my dilemma is..... do I fold his clothes into a binbag or just stuff them in?? We've 2 kids, but I WILL NOT TAKE IT!!!
1 of the messages says he has kids?? We've been together 6 years....ive never heard about any other kids π€ (pics in comments)
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Oh girl, light em on fire

Make a family gathering, say you have a slideshow of the kids you made. Put one together, have a few photos, and finish it off with the evidence. With his entire family there

Put βem in a bin bag and confront him why all these messages are on his iPad if heβs cheating kick him out thatβs the best way I know it will not be easy but youβll get through it I promise you x

Girl tell him bye and them clothes on the front porch. Print those messages out and write goodbye on em.
Luckily my baby is with Nanny for the night, 'Adonis' is staying in Brighton for the night with my son (for a boys night), so....home alone....my house is going to have so much space....I could use his office for a shoe room πππ

Iβd sell every piece of clothing and crap he has for a dollar or burn it

Girl sue for emotional distress!!! And throw his shit out the damn window, fuck a bag. I hope it rains heavy

wait can you actually sue your man for emotional distress if he does this?
No idea.....but I could see what Amazon Marketplace have to offer π€£π€£

Ma god! Is he talking to men or women im confused??
Confused too

Itβll be ok just pack his shit and change ur locks and everything and leave a note on the door saying Iβm done with the lying and the sneaking u do and put the pictures in a envelope. Say do not contact me or my family.

sadly many states have moved away from being βat faultβ

Iβm so sorry girl, burn it or thrift it.

first thing id say is go get tested for STIs! my biggest advice would be to not react too quickly - honestly if i were you Id lawyer up before telling him you know! you never know if he'll try and do something crazy like take the kids, not pay child support, etc. you deserve compensation and custody since he was the one who broke the vows! Im so sorry this happened girly! I hope you have a good support system to help you out π«Άπ»π

That is cheating, I would just throw all his clothes on the front lawn and change the locks. Let him deal with it

This actually looks like a scam text, Iβd double check. I get those all of the time and have no clue where theyβre coming from honestly

^A phishing scam.

That message is a scam β¦ I get these random messages on my phone as well .

Yes, it is possible to make a claim for emotional distress in the UK, but the success of a case depends on the circumstances and the strength of the evidence!!

period!!

Love to hear it!!
So he's just dropped my Son home & says 2018 doesn't count as we got together in the July???? Pics in August & September don't count then?? There's my face pics right next to other woman/women's boobs & bits?? & apparently he has no idea about dating websites?? Must have short term memory issues as he only signed up in January πππ....does he honestly think im stupid?

Smh π€¦π½ββοΈπ€¦π½ββοΈπ€¦π½ββοΈ idiot